Author Elfie Posted February 3, 2013 Author Share Posted February 3, 2013 Thanks Lovepolish and Anne1707, some helpful points, some I've tried and will continue to try, some I hadn't thought of. He did say not to bother moving as "I'll find ya". I've been thorugh the "move in secret" twice through Women's Aid and changed my name legally the second time, so I'm not keen to go through that again, and don't want to think I'm dealing with someone that crazy again (time will tell). Lovepolish - when you say depends how much I want this to end, interesting insight and it made me question myself. I do waver a little bit, but I know that's what he'll be relying on, especially as I've pushed him away and took him back so many times. He's filled my days for nearly a year, and 8 months very much every day has revolved around him, so the feelings won't go overnight, but now I can truthfully say I do want out. One of the hardest things is realising the truth, but the strength comes from facing it and moving on. Just hope it's soon Thank you for your replies Link to post Share on other sites
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