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Hello,

 

My ex-bf called yesterday to ask not to contact him again...how rude! who the heck does he think he is? I alwasy so he was an ok guy, then called yesterday out of the blue- to my job...I could not even say anything.

 

...I know i should not do it, but I have a mind to contact him often....what right does he had..I am a pretty hot chick, he is an ugly guy...I rarely call him anyway..and he never suggested I was being a pain...and now this?

 

why guys do these things? cannot trust anyone anymore.

 

should I call him again? I think if I should do and act like I need his help, he will not be able to answer my calls and talk to me....I was nice to him and was there for him...and now this?

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I know i should not do it, but I have a mind to contact him often..

 

Do it. If you want to be charged with harrassment.

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...I rarely called..and he always answered and called back...never said anything...he always appeared very happy to talk to me..and sometimes he called himself..it was a 50/50 thing.

 

then out of the blue..after a year of us having broken off..it was a very friendly break up....no hurt, no fights...just casual and nice...then this...at work of all places...

 

no, I am not going to call him. if now, for whatever insane reason, he does not want to talk to me, I will not call..but like I said..he used to call me just as much...maybe once a month..it was not like we talked every day.

 

...I am just venting...how can he be such a jerk...I was always a good friend being there for him..and now he does this...

 

Yes, we slept together...but it was not like that...and we never slept together after we broke up..and we have not even seen each other after that...it was a phone call once in a while. I have and I am dating other people. I am not obsessed with him. If a friend stops talking to you, wouldn't you want to know why? I am not a psycho...I am just hurt.

 

I guess I did not understand why? I could not ask as I was at work...

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From my experience... He has another girlfriend and she told him not to talk to you anymore and told him to tell you not to call him anymore. So thats what he did to make his new girlfriend happy.

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I agree either he has another gf and she doesnt want you calling anymore ooorrrr...

 

hes still in love with you and he cant take it anymore so hes practicing no contact to fully move on from you.

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ConfusedInOC
Originally posted by Hisnerve

I am a pretty hot chick, he is an ugly guy...I rarely call him anyway..

 

This smells like trolling bait to me.

 

And if it's not, no wonder he is acting that way....

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