miss_guy Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 Okay a lil' background info on the relationship. My ex and me dated for a almost a year. The reason almost a yr is cause is cause she broke up less than wk before our 1 yr anniversary. The reason(s) being it was her senior year in high school and her schedule with school, family, and work put a lot stress on her. Well, this causing us not to spend as much time together as we both would like caused things unhappily. We argued a lot. We meet at work and became good friends. We talked for a month before dating. Well, we both ended up quitting where we worked. Cause towards the end our schedule to work made it almost impossible to have a day for us. She went and got another job while i concentrated on school cause I was in collage. Well, we had started the arguing a lot then bout the lil things. She meet a guy at her new work that is 10 yrs her age. He was sweet to her and put thoughts in her head. She started to question our realationship and seem more edgy and defensive then. So, that bascially ended our relationship. She is in the band and got offered a scholarship and made up her mind to go there before we broke up. And said she still was going there after we broke up cause i was going their. I got offered a band manager scholarship after we broke up and talked it up with her before accepting it. She said go for it. Well, at the beginning of school this year, her 1st yr, she went and told everyone not to talk to me cause i was a a@$hole. Then went back and said I was nice. Other day I gave some stuff back to her. She said with watery eyes still friends and proceed to hug me. Now she talks to me but on with short conversation. No matter who I talk to guy or girl she gets them away to try to talk to them. Is this her self-defense mech to hide her feelings that she still loves me by not letting me talk to no one when she sees me talking to them, draw attention to her when I am in the same full room, and only having short covesations without much eye contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 Who knows? Talk to her about it... Link to post Share on other sites
doubledown Posted August 26, 2004 Share Posted August 26, 2004 Guy, bottom line, she dumped you for another guy, period! Nothing's gonna change with this girl ever, she'll always be looking for the BBD (bigger better deal) when it comes to men. You're still young and you better learn the red flags to look for because you'll be dealing with this crap for a long time to come. The other lesson you learned is that she wants to keep you on a string and not let you date other girls. Basically she's recruiting you to be one of her minions. Women love having as many guys as possible in their social circle. Don't do it! Move on and ignore her. Ask out the next pretty girl you see and then let your EX see you with her. It'll burn her ass. Sorry to be so jaded but I'm just sick of seeing people in relationships act like this. Maybe it's just the way it's supposed to be, and always has been. Link to post Share on other sites
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