todreaminblue Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 hmmmm...she was wearing a wedding ring, and they were passionately unable to keep their hands off each other I dotn understand why you think they might not be married to each other......may not hav ebeen classy in a car park at burger king.....did you actually watch them with binoculars......and did you watch the whole entire time......passion doesnt have to die in a relationship....in fact i am sure some of the married on here still giggle and get excited with their partner, have passionate interludes where the background fades away and all they see is the eperson they love...laughter and passion never has to die....it only dies when you stop feeding it..fi i had viewed what you did fro starters i would have looked away seems like a private moment.....the second thing i would choose to believe they were married to each other...and i would smile......deb Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Weeeelllll..... There is kissing with love and affection, and THEN there is a ravenous devouring of each other's mouths with full on passion, and that's what it sounds like was going on from the description. I don't think the latter is appropriate for young children to observe. I dont think pda's should be all consuming passion cannibalistic either.......but as far as young kids go its easy for parent to sidetrack them with an ice cream and a burger and the toy that comes with the happy meal ...kids see what their parents want them to see......and in life there are many things kids shouldnt see that are there anyway...that is of course if young children are supervised in public....if they are there by themselves.....thats another matter.....deb Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Unbelievable that married people would still want to make out! Uh no. The fact they are doing it next to a dumpster in a B. King parking lot. Its just odd. Not going to say it is out of the question that a married couple would, but the odds are better that this was an affair. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 If the participants had respect for other people, the parents wouldn't have to distract the kids from seeing people devouring each other. In an ideal world yes it would be nice to not have to censor since when is this world ideal.....i am more worried about what is available to view on the internet and that is in my own home than in a parking lot at hungry jacks.....deb Link to post Share on other sites
Nyla Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Maybe the issue is that all of us perceive this unseen event differently? My husband and I passionately kiss in our car. Nobody is around except for the odd person walking by. Clothing doesn't come off either. When people are feeling lusty, a dumpster or BK parking lot isn't going to make a difference. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 Uh no. The fact they are doing it next to a dumpster in a B. King parking lot. Its just odd. Not going to say it is out of the question that a married couple would, but the odds are better that this was an affair. So if it was in the front of the parking lot near the sign, that would be different? Or in the parking lot of the mall? Or the park? Or . . . . What on earth does the location of where it is in public matter? Good god, I will make sure I never do anything near a dumpster to not give the wrong impression. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 Um... Maybe I have special powers, but I have no trouble discerning the difference. "Lady on the streets (which includes public parking lots - they were not in the drive through BTW), a freak between the sheets." From the description it sounded like a bit much to put on display where little kids can see. Then again, you and I have very different lifestyles. Yes I guess you have a point. Some people just never have any fun. Always worried about other people. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 An ideal world has to begin somewhere, so why not each do our own part? If everyone practiced basic respect and kindness to others rather than the ME, ME, ME mentality, I think we would all be a lot happier. How is kissing/making out not being kind to others? Why does your perception of decency mean that is what everyone should do? There are indecency laws for just that. If it isn't breaking them then they are fine. Why do you think everyone should think, feel, and act just like you? Good god, they were making out, KISSING, that is rated PG. How on earth is that such a travesty against mankind??? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 An ideal world has to begin somewhere, so why not each do our own part? If everyone practiced basic respect and kindness to others rather than the ME, ME, ME mentality, I think we would all be a lot happier. in an ideal world i woudlnt have been sexually assaulted at five .....but thats life and the agency to choose where they repressed my ageency......doesnt matter how many times i say i wish someone would have respected my rights ...he didnt she didnt and no justice done .......sucks but again doesnt really matter in the scheme of things i am now a woman ....and i am only one of many..far more injustice has been done and will be done than what happened to me....thats what i teach my kids....i need no sympathy or do i feel outraged it happened to me...it just happened.....the world is full of injustice and sick people..there are far worse things people do to others than kiss passionately in front of kids.......some countries repress the rights for freedom of speech,freedom to express different religious beliefs.....there will always be opposites...good and bad......there has to be.......unfortunately some people will suffer because of that.......the world wouldnt be a happier place if everyone respected each others rights....it wouldnt be real....and there would be no need for justice would there......where there is justice there is injustice and a passionate kiss in public rates low on the injustice scale, but thats my opinion...you have the right to yours.......cheers...deb Link to post Share on other sites
Author 96nole Posted February 1, 2013 Author Share Posted February 1, 2013 Weeeelllll..... There is kissing with love and affection, and THEN there is a ravenous devouring of each other's mouths with full on passion, and that's what it sounds like was going on from the description. I don't think the latter is appropriate for young children to observe. I would go with description in bold Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 To be honest 96 it does seem that you spent a lot of time watching this couple 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ellin Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 My ex and I made out in some weird places, but only while dating. We had a decent married sex life, but that was pretty much confined to the house. Maybe they were dating then? Or just engaged - the big diamond ring makes that look quite likely, no? Or just people who like to show off their love. A couple who meet after a long time apart... Could be lots of things. But no.. It HAD to be an affair...? They must have wanted to be caught then. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author 96nole Posted February 1, 2013 Author Share Posted February 1, 2013 To be honest 96 it does seem that you spent a lot of time watching this couple Not much else to look at when it's right in front of you, maybe 20 feet away. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 (edited) What was it...what was this "something"? Because honestly, its sounds insulting to MARRIAGE - that a man and wife CANNOT be and act like that. Whatever you do, watch the movie in the theater...my hands sometimes wander when sitting next to my W. Obscenely so. Good grief...assume much? They may or may not have been married. But I can't lie...I'd probably meet up with my H in a parking lot to make out frantically . I would actually like to pretend to be in an affair with my future H, from time to time, to keep things spicy. Instead of him or I finding other people...we can become each other's own OW and OM. I'll meet him in a parking lot with a wig on and we can drive to a hotel or any number of scandalous things. Edited February 1, 2013 by MissBee 1 Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 If her solitaire was large enough to be seen across the parking lot why on earth is she slumming it with the burger king guy? That's my only question. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 Not much else to look at when it's right in front of you, maybe 20 feet away. I would have done the classy thing and looked away. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
fllygirl Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 I was just sitting in line at a Burger King drive thru. As I’m waiting to put in my order, I notice a car pull in and park right next to another car. A woman gets out of the car that just parked and a man got out of the car that was already parked. They immediately hug and start kissing. She is exceptionally passionate and is kissing his neck, cheeks, and lips. A few minutes later, he locks his car and they get into her car. But they don’t leave. They continue to make out in her car. She can’t keep her hands off his face. And of course, can’t keep her lips off of his. This goes on for another 5 minutes until I have received my lunch and drive off. As I drive off, I look in my rear view mirror, and they are still sitting there, in the parking lot of a fast food restaurant, making out. Perhaps I should also mention the rather large diamond ring she was wearing. Something tells me that he is not her husband. It just brings a tear to my eye. Soulmates finding each other in the parking lot of a Burger King. 30 feet from a dumpster. And in full view of about 10 other cars waiting in line with me. Stay classy you two, stay classy. It just brings a tear to my eye... picking up food at Burger King next to the dumpster.. Stay classy, stay classy ....LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 I am actually surprised that so many of you good people are involved in a discussion that no one seems to be winning at. Why not just forget about something as innoccuos as this and move on to something else. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TheOW Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 I am actually surprised that so many of you good people are involved in a discussion that no one seems to be winning at. Why not just forget about something as innoccuos as this and move on to something else. It's actually quite amusing but i have noticed most of the BS tend to think its an affair and most xOw or Ow think its not .... may be something in that Link to post Share on other sites
TheOW Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 Good Christ. LIBEL is defamation of character by the written word. Therefore, if you're going to make ridiculous statements about an AMBIGUOUS story told by a LoveShack member, at least get your LEGAL definitions right. Secondly, it's NOT libel if the written word is TRUE. Thirdly, NO names were mentioned, NO town, NOT even the actual Burger King where this took place. So who the hell is being "slandered?" What a freakin joke. Pants in a twist much ? Ok I used the "wrong" word, calm down no need for the word police. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TheOW Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 It's posters like you who analyse every word someone types that puts others like myself off posting on here. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 Good Christ. Yes, He is...but off-topic. Secondly, it's NOT libel if the written word is TRUE. True, but this particularly statement is an opinion and not supported by facts that can be determined to be true. Hence, the possibility of slander or libel. (BTW, many of us feel like these threads are conversational and almost seem o be verbal rather than written. I can see how someone might consider this slander instead of libel.) Thirdly, NO names were mentioned, NO town, NOT even the actual Burger King where this took place. True. Having said that, people have successfully sued in cases where fictionized version of an event was published. So who the hell is being "slandered?" Actually, while we don't know the names or places, I am fairly certain that it is no person who is in hell. What a freakin joke. Yeah...it all was. Thanks for your humor. Had to clean up some coffee I spit out when I read it. The whole libel/slander thing mirrors this story. It is based on assumptions and opinions which are colored by experiences. I don't fault the conclusion...I could have drawn the same ones. However, as I pointed out, I know that some could see my wife and I as having an affair based on our PDA. When I see older couples who are more affectionate than the norm, I too wonder, but why? Is it because we don't expect married couples to act so lovey dovey? Isn't that quite sad? Can't married people who meet for lunch show too much affection to one another? I think they can. And this couple may be either a cheating couple, or a happily married couple. Choose which, but I am guessing it is based on your own situation. And to the one who said BSs are stating one thing, and OWs the opposite...then I represent another group that sees it differently again. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 Really? No town mentioned? No names mentioned? Nothing to be able to pinpoint even which quadrant of the country this happened in and someone can sue? Wrong. Uh...I actually agreed with the quote. Note the word "true." Dead giveaway. I simply added that real names don't have to be used. A fictional version which obviously appears like someone's situation can be grounds for a lawsuit. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 Perhaps he was getting a salad. Oh oh... the jokes we could do with this one! Let's not get this thread closed just yet though, shall we? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Decorative Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 As a BS reading that - I find that a disturbing bit of role play. I can't even imagine a BS becoming that desperate to pretend to be an OW for their husband in order keep him from cheating again, but for a former OW to do that with a legitimate relationship? That's even more disturbing. If someone actually needs to "become" an affair partner from time to time in order to keep their partner from straying and/or keeping things spicy, then there's some deep issues going on. Not healthy for the individual nor the relationship in my opinion. I know it's just talk at the moment and you may not ever do it, but you shouldn't want (let alone need) to do that. For it to get to a point to actually follow through with something like that - seems just as degrading as being a "real" OW. And it certainly won't stop your future husband from cheating on you. I adore Miss Bee. I truly do. But everything about the post of are referencing made me uncomfortable. Infidelity is horrible. Horrible. The hardest thing I have ever recovered from in my life, and I have had some whoppers. I cannot fathom- especially being a participant on this board and seeing the destruction- why role playing an affair is hot? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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