jlindemann Posted January 31, 2013 Share Posted January 31, 2013 I want to do a weekend trip with my kids and BF. I'm not quite sure how to handle the sleeping arrangments. My BF has never slept at my house while the kids were there, nor have we ever slept at his house. (I sleep at his house when my kids are with their dad). I don't know if I have the budget for 2 hotel rooms, but I'm thinking that's really the only right thing to do. My kids are 7 and 11. Has anyone ever went on a trip with their new signifigant other? How did you handle sleeping arrangments when there are kids involved? I would like to think it's OK if we got a large enough room where he slept on a pull out couch or something like that. But I'm not sure if it's just more appropriate to get him his own room next to ours. I don't want him to feel like an outsider, but he also understands that I need to instill good morals in my children too. Link to post Share on other sites
Ladybugz Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 once you have kids its not about what you like. its about what is best for your kids. many people dont think about their kids. but their own fun. and forget that often new bf/ stepdads molest kids in such a situation. i think you should keep your bf in another room. or just dont go away, go to places in your area. so your kids can sleep safely at home. how long do you know him? Link to post Share on other sites
Krytie TV Posted February 2, 2013 Share Posted February 2, 2013 I personally think that 2 rooms is the right play. Have the BF pay for it. Maybe if you cannot afford the necessary sleeping arrangements then a vacation shouldn't be in the cards quite yet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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