pie2 Posted February 1, 2013 Share Posted February 1, 2013 M30 - today marks the beginning of a new year. Shake of the regrets of the past, because they're based partly in delusion. You had some good aspects to your relationship, but they obviously didn't outweigh the bad. So just focus on what you have now, and how you can have a better tomorrow (I know that sounds pretty cliche!). I mean, I'm sure you have some pretty cute, amazing kids, and that is something wonderful. Don't hold on to anything more than that...and no more wine 3 Link to post Share on other sites
dejame Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 it doesn't matter that it was a woman assaulting her husband, check out the laws on assault -they do not have separate laws for men and women. He had an additional issue because he is a man in that he would have had more problems if he would have fought back. Hitting is hitting. Women can do damage especially if they are in a state of anger. The sarcasm and judgmental opinions regarding this poster are clearly out of line. No need to comment in the negative. People come here for support. It is one thing to talk about alternative responses while respecting the poster and quite another to verbally attack someone and call them names. The latter is plain old bullying. Stop acting like a bully. It is offensive and doesn't belong on a support board. Link to post Share on other sites
Author M30USA Posted February 24, 2013 Author Share Posted February 24, 2013 it doesn't matter that it was a woman assaulting her husband, check out the laws on assault -they do not have separate laws for men and women. He had an additional issue because he is a man in that he would have had more problems if he would have fought back. Hitting is hitting. Women can do damage especially if they are in a state of anger. The sarcasm and judgmental opinions regarding this poster are clearly out of line. No need to comment in the negative. People come here for support. It is one thing to talk about alternative responses while respecting the poster and quite another to verbally attack someone and call them names. The latter is plain old bullying. Stop acting like a bully. It is offensive and doesn't belong on a support board. Thanks for the support. You can bet I made darn sure to never even think about laying a finger on her. I knew for sure that if I even did it once--no matter how justified even if my life was on the line--it would have meant the end of seeing my children again. THAT right there was my motivation. Yet it still didn't stop my ex from falsely claiming in court that I did hit her, etc. Somehow her mom made the same claim even though she was never around during an argument. Go figure. Link to post Share on other sites
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