Is This A Rebound Relationship????

[cword]

If you and your man were together for 3 years and have a child together you and him are having problems which aren't major. He's confiding in this girl in January about his problems with you at home. You both seperate February, 2 weeks later he sleeps with someone that you are familiar with(the same chick he was confiding in), March they end up in a relationship together, June he gets his own place and she moves in. And to top it all off your what is now your ex man asks her to marry him, but she turns him down. Throughout this madness you and your ex sleeps with each other about 3 times while he's "in a relationship" with this chick. What is this? Is this a rebound relationship? Is this relationship serious? Why does he keep coming back to feed his apetite sexually? Help me to understand.

[echo419]

Sounds like a mess to me. I don't think any of the people involved really know what they want. Sorry to seem harsh, but why after your EX slept with this other woman---asked her to marry him, did you go back and sleep with him?

[Trager]

um, step back.. u have a child to think about.. he obviously isnt going to be the kind of dad the kid needs, and well if he is running around and in love with another, drop him, he dosent deserve u worth ****. In fact, i'd love to give him a piece of my mind and knock some since into u. u love him? ya? well tuff he is using u. no mater what u do or say he is guna use and abuse u and ur child till u tell him to stop. Not physically abusing, emotionally. Whatever u do, dont let that child get into a tug of war. if u use ur kid u dont love them. yes if u have any feelings of "i have the kid so he will come back" ur using the child. u may want to have this guy but man.. the child comes first.. dont worry about the bed.. worry about the KID!