Mjack1234 Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 I am in a long distance relationship so my boyfriend and I often have 'sexy talks' to keep that aspect of the relationship satisfied until we can see rah other next. While I'm perfectly capable of getting off from descriptions of what he's going to do to me, he is very visual and prefers pictures. I trust him a lot and have no problem sending sexy pictures (naked or not). I'm just looking for ideas on different poses or ideas for these pictures to keep it from getting boring. Thanks!! Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 different areas of your body, like take a close up of one area of your body can you guys facetime or something? sexytime that way its way better than pics pics of you touching yourself sneak into the bathroom at work and take a quick sexy photo there! Link to post Share on other sites
meeji Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 In my more recent LD situations, I liked to put on shows on Skype--touching myself, doing a striptease, spontaneous flashing, etc. If you have a camera with a timer you have a lot of options for snapping sexy pictures. Take pics of the parts of your body your guy likes the most/in outfits he likes, etc. I totally agree with this! When I was with my ex, I did striptease and by the end it he had to pick his jaw up off the floor and get a glass of water because his throat was so dry! It works! I also recommend this Good luck 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 ....he is very visual and prefers pictures. I trust him a lot and have no problem sending sexy pictures (naked or not). . Aw, how cute! How sexy!! How romantic!!! How utterly naive!! Doesn't anyone else think this is a bad idea?? Every girl who ever sent photos to an BF 'trusted him a lot'.... And an awful lot of guys broke that trust post-break-up!! These girls were equally certain that "He would 'NE-VAH' do such a thing! He respects me too much!" Whatever you do, whatever you send - keep your face firmly out of shot. Bad idea. BAD. What if he publishes them in a book, and your next BF, completely unaware, has it given to him as a gift.... you guys see where I'm going with this - ?! 6 Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Doesn't anyone else think this is a bad idea?? Yes. But you can't tell 'em! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Send sexy pics, do sexy videos BUT ONLY SHOW YOURSELF FROM THE NECK DOWN. I'd also suggest a blank wall behind you or a screen draped with a sheet so no one could recognize your surroundings. You don't think guys post these online? Do a search on DailyMotion.com for one website. I'm sure there are many, many others. Of course, some of you who are exhibitionists will love everyone in the world seeing you naked. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 I'm just looking for ideas on different poses or ideas for these pictures to keep it from getting boring. Thanks!! I agree that it should be body only with absolutely no pics of your face. And they don't all have to be graphic. You can do a series and tease a little. Throw on a sheer bra and matching undies. Slide your hand just past the band of the bottoms and snap a photo. Make the next one just one of your legs, shedding the undies and proceed from there. Put on a thin white tank top with no bra. Get into the sunlight (or water) and angle your body so the top becomes see-through. Guys can do a lot with their imagination. Don't feel you have to ONLY do overly explicit photos. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ana0pera Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Ditto on the below the neck pictures. They can come back to haunt you. and even if you're boyfriend IS totally trustworthy, what if he loses his phone or computer and someone else gets there hands on the pictures that way? Be safe rather than sorry. A lot of people also use SnapChat to send sexy pictures, that way your SO only gets to see it for a given number of seconds and the photo is deleted after the time is up. It's fun even for non-intimate photos. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 If you must do it, make sure your face and any other identifiable body markings, items in the fore or background have been cropped out of the picture. I also wouldn't recommend full frontals, possibly a few teaser rear shots with barely there panties. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
taiko Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Aw, how cute! How sexy!! How romantic!!! How utterly naive!! Doesn't anyone else think this is a bad idea?? Every girl who ever sent photos to an BF 'trusted him a lot'.... And an awful lot of guys broke that trust post-break-up!! These girls were equally certain that "He would 'NE-VAH' do such a thing! He respects me too much!" Whatever you do, whatever you send - keep your face firmly out of shot. Bad idea. BAD. What if he publishes them in a book, and your next BF, completely unaware, has it given to him as a gift.... you guys see where I'm going with this - ?! Yes you are balencing the need to keep a sexual relationship moving forward versus the risk that you may run for office or become Miss America one day or your father is Hilton or Kardasian so that anyone would really care Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Honey, take a breath - or PUNCTUATE!! Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 (edited) Yes you are balencing the need to keep a sexual relationship moving forward versus the risk that you may run for office or become Miss America one day or your father is Hilton or Kardasian so that anyone would really care men get spiteful when dumped, one teenager girl begged her ex not to put the pictures on YouTube, she killed herself when he didn't, other unhappy photographed girls have been known to post here i think it's a free country, it's her body, she can be careful or say no or tell you to hire a porn-star bottom line - it's her body Edited February 3, 2013 by darkmoon Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Some couples do trust each other 100% and pics/videos are safe and always will be, I know implicitly that my long term ex, and my current partner would never betray my trust with something like this, it's just not in their character. However if it's someone you've not met or don't know too well then no way would I share pics with them. Can't really answer the OP's question though because everyone has personal preference as to what sort of pics they like, or what pics they are happy taking, or sharing of themselves. Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted February 3, 2013 Share Posted February 3, 2013 Some couples do trust each other 100% and pics/videos are safe and always will be, I know implicitly that my long term ex, and my current partner would never betray my trust with something like this, it's just not in their character. However if it's someone you've not met or don't know too well then no way would I share pics with them. Can't really answer the OP's question though because everyone has personal preference as to what sort of pics they like, or what pics they are happy taking, or sharing of themselves. I think it's a little different when you get to our age and the relationship involves two fully committed adults. I trust my guy completely, I wouldn't be marrying him otherwise, and I trusted my exH, BUT a lot of the stories on LS are from young kids who, although perhaps in exclusive relationships, couldn't really say they are 100% committed....and how well do they know their boyfriend, especially if they're in an LDR and have only spent a few weekends together or, at the most, one or two weeks. Posting photos or videos on the Internet of your naked girlfriend or even ex girlfriend is something that only immature idiots will do. Hopefully, by the time we're in our 40s we've learned enough to weed those types of people out of our lives. I think we're probably talking about two entirely different scenarios, but I would still make a blanket recommendation on LS that, in most cases, giving your LD boyfriend naked photos of you is not a wise move. There's nothing wrong with discreetly sexy ones like Cerridwen mentioned though. Men do like to be able to use their imagination a little! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 Have you met this guy IRL, OP? How long have you been in an R together? Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 Oh I was also going to say, get them in return!! They will inspire you :love: I wouldn't send pics if I wasn't getting them back. Fair is fair... and I thought the no face thing was obvious. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 Have you met this guy IRL, OP? How long have you been in an R together? Okay these are good questions too LOL. My suggestions come from the place of LTR, op. I wouldn't send pics, period, to someone I was newly dating and never if we hadn't met. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 No pics. Ever. It's my thing. Real life experience is what's supposed to make "us" memorable Good luck with finding your inspiration! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjack1234 Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 We've been together for 2 years but were close friends for two years before that Link to post Share on other sites
stevie_23 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I've sent sexy pictures and MANY videos (not all sexy but many topless or naked just chatting and getting ready for work and putting makeup on and stuff) to my ex. I never had any concerns that he'd use them for inappropriate purposes and now we're not together, I still don't worry about this. He sent many similar videos to me also and I'd never use them that way. I know he won't either. Not everyone does that. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 We've been together for 2 years but were close friends for two years before that Eh, I'd think it'd be reasonably safe if you've been together for 2 years. Of course, there is never a guarantee. Also I'd strongly recommend doing it on Skype cam instead of pictures. Pictures persist on your hard drive until you reformat it. Cam shows are over and done with unless active measures are taken to record the video. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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