i need help to get my girlfriend back i dont know what to do

[999rave999]

Hello people I need some advice.my girl freind broke up with me and I want her back.We just broke up a day after are 11 month of going out.I miss her so so so much. i need some of you to help me.She said that here heart just wasnt in it right now and cause we fight all the time.every since she started to work we never got to really see each other and that was another problem.

 

I am only 16 and so is she her b-day is sept 1st we made a promise that we would never drink or do drugs well she broke that promise she got drunk one day because she said it took away the pain she was in and i got mad at her but i didnt show it to her i acted calm and stuff she i ask her again not to drink no more and she said that her b-day was coming up and she wanted to drink on her b-day but she knows it makes me mad when she drinks and she fells sad about it after she has done it

 

see she has this friend that likes me and she hated her for that and she went to this 4 h camp and when she came back she was all buddy buddy with her and then she wanted to break up i dont know if her friend told her to or said some stuff that mad my girlfriend mad. we both are a little nervous when were with the other sex were afraid that one will cheat on each other but i know i would never do that and i know that she would never do that but i think that her friend might of maid some stuff up and told my g/f to break up with me

 

she said another reason is cause she is under to much stress right now cause her family gives her crap about me and she is tied of it and us always fighting isnt make it better she said if i can control my anger and stop fighting with her then maybe we can get back together in a couple of months but i am afraid that she will find some one else by then she said that she will not go out with anyone for a long time but you can not be to sure right.

 

i dont know what to do so i am asking you people because i dont know you and i know all the other people and they dont know what to do cause they dont want to make it worst so i ask you people to help me and tell me what to do i want to go back out with her but i dont how to make her love me again please help me

[Trager]

well why do her parents not like u first of all? and u mentiond u have an anger thing. Possibly anger management? Cus i'll say there is nothing like that to get a girl to leave.

 

to the point. Confront her. Tell her your worries. Ask if her friend said something. Come on ask. i know the fear of her lashing out is great. but will u ever know then? and btw, dont even consider being around her friend that likes u, way to say ur right i like her too. Let her know how u feel. that u dont want it over. there is no valid excuse of using ur parents. if there is i'd use it my parents would go to the athorities if they had there way with me and my bf. and for that anger and fighting. Even if u disagree, for the moment u need to agree with her, see things her way.

 

if ur asking a way to just plainly get her back, the only way is to give her exactly wat she wants.. dont know what it is? well listen, i dont mean listen as in have long talks i mean listen as in if she asks for space give it. a simple OK instead of why is great and if u really want to supriese her.. leave the commen questions of WHY alone. we hate them. espeshially when we dont feel we ow them. cuss if u frustrate us, where gone and shut off from u.