lcs Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 My Ex girlfriend and I have been separated for a month now.. she is the one to initiate the break up ( the dumper )... We started to talk again 2 weeks ago, as we went together and have lunch and talk.. so here s the case, since we started to talk again, i don t use no contact but i limited the way i contact her, i can send her a message every 2 weeks or more, she answers quickly to my messages and always respond to them.. but the thing is , she never initiate the convo.. what i want to know is '' can i try to win her back? as she is answering to my messages, or Keep it the way it is ... * She told me she still have feelings for me when we had lunch *we are at the same school and same class, so we see each other everyday *she is not the type of girl who likes to talk a lot especially in Text messages, she was my GF , i know her.. *She always pass next to my locker every time she is goin to class ** i gave those details because maybe they will influence you guys judgement.. Thank You Link to post Share on other sites
oracle Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 she doesn't text you cause she doesnt want you to think she is interested, because she is NOT INTERESTED Just cause she dumped you doesn't mean all her feelings end right then and there. Thats why she still replies and sees you. You are wasting your time and energy Don't look back My Ex girlfriend and I have been separated for a month now.. she is the one to initiate the break up ( the dumper )... We started to talk again 2 weeks ago, as we went together and have lunch and talk.. so here s the case, since we started to talk again, i don t use no contact but i limited the way i contact her, i can send her a message every 2 weeks or more, she answers quickly to my messages and always respond to them.. but the thing is , she never initiate the convo.. what i want to know is '' can i try to win her back? as she is answering to my messages, or Keep it the way it is ... * She told me she still have feelings for me when we had lunch *we are at the same school and same class, so we see each other everyday *she is not the type of girl who likes to talk a lot especially in Text messages, she was my GF , i know her.. *She always pass next to my locker every time she is goin to class ** i gave those details because maybe they will influence you guys judgement.. Thank You 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LostOne1 Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 Take myt advice man.. STOP texting. My ex did the same to me. I would text every 2 weeks and it was the same as you. She cared so she texted back, but she really didn't want to be with me and she would say each time I would talk to her. It's hard man.. but stop texting and learn to move on like I did. It's over and if she really wanted to work it out and be with you she would've texted you. Also by texting her all the time YOU are showing her interest. It gives her a ego boost. STOP and go NC now. Maybe with time she will realize she wants you and maybe she will realize she is happier without you. My ex told me she was happier without me. It hurt, but it must be true, because she never texted me first. Please don't make the same msitake I did.. it was painful. STOP ALL CONTACT. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lcs Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 Take myt advice man.. STOP texting. My ex did the same to me. I would text every 2 weeks and it was the same as you. She cared so she texted back, but she really didn't want to be with me and she would say each time I would talk to her. It's hard man.. but stop texting and learn to move on like I did. It's over and if she really wanted to work it out and be with you she would've texted you. Also by texting her all the time YOU are showing her interest. It gives her a ego boost. STOP and go NC now. Maybe with time she will realize she wants you and maybe she will realize she is happier without you. My ex told me she was happier without me. It hurt, but it must be true, because she never texted me first. Please don't make the same msitake I did.. it was painful. STOP ALL CONTACT. Yaaa Thanks Man.. I think i would do that.. i will never text her and see if she will .. and i ll try to move on at the same time ... thank for the advice .. Link to post Share on other sites
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