Antifleshjoel101 Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 Hey I just need some opinions here and some tips. What can you do when the girl you love is in love with another man but there is feelings there and there sometimes casual hook ups. She is my best friend for a long time now pretty much the only I talk to 24/7 she made it clear to me that she doesn't want us being together because she loves him, its tough giving advice to someone you love. I can't anymore people are telling me to stop being friends with her others tell me to go for it but its not gonna happen. If anybody has been in this position before what do I do stop talking to my best friend or just accept the fact? Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted February 4, 2013 Share Posted February 4, 2013 She's not your best friend. She's his. You need to cut contact because you have invested a lot more into this than she has. She's tried to make it clear that she doesn't love you. 'Casual hook-ups' are deceptive and self-defeating. Are you saying these casual hook-ups are sexual? You really need to do the right thing and stop doing two things: Deceiving yourself, and feeding her Ego. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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