atlous Posted August 27, 2004 Share Posted August 27, 2004 excalled after three weeks I did not pick up the phone.I wonder if that will be the last time he will call? I have a funny feeling that it isn't two and half years is alot of time. I was pregnant and lost the baby he never asked how I was? It all started when he said that he slept at another girls house. I told him that I had had enough and he turned it all around on me told me that I needed an anger managment program but the last time I checked I was only human and that hurt me alot. I still feel that we did have a relationship like no other we were very happy together and the most combatible it was scary how alike we are. I wonder if he feels bad about how he treated me? I wonder if he still feels that I am his soul mate he used to tell me that all of the time. I miss him terribly but can't erase how he treated me. I feel that if you love someone than you do not treat them with such disrespect. I am so angry at how he could just walk away and not deal with the anger hurt and jealously. At the same time I do love him. Is it true that guys deal with things totally different? Or if they truly loved someone they wouldn't go there to such a rough place by the time he is no longer angry and feels he can talk I feel as though I have moved on! What am I to do. My plan right now is if he wants to speak with me he is going to have to work hard to get me to listen. Where was he when I needed to talk nowhere. He just ditched me! I still have strong feelings that I need to work out before I am ready to talk. Or do I answer the phone and tell him that I don't think it's a good idea that we talk at all! help Link to post Share on other sites
ECVegas Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 A leopard never changes his strips. Guys don't handle things differently, we should all respect the one you love. He is probably lonely, or rebounding from a relationship and thought of you, so he called. The ordeal you went through with pregnancy must have been incredibly difficult. For someone not to be there for you is almost uncomprehensable. People don't change over a couple years. You can forgive, but never forget. Do you trust him with your heart again, even after what he did to you during one of the most vulnerable moments of your life? Really think about that, regardless what smooth-talk he approaches you with. Link to post Share on other sites
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