blackheart Posted August 28, 2004 Share Posted August 28, 2004 Not looking for advice so much. Just want to rant to some people who might be able to comiserate. Long story, some of its here if anyone cares. Basically my ex-wife dumped me for someone else. Its been ONE WHOLE MONTH. And now she is bringing him to functions of our kids. I was proud of myself. I didn't lose my cool until after they were gone, I didn't create a scene. In fact I didn't even acknowledge his presence. And he stayed away from me so we didn't have to interact. I don't hate him. I actually kinda feel sorry for him because he has no clue what he's in for with my ex. He'll probably learn the lesson I learned the hard way - if she will cheat to be with you she will cheat on you. But the mere fact that she would bring him something that should only be shared by the children and their parents really irks me. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted August 28, 2004 Share Posted August 28, 2004 I am glad you remained mature and kept your calm through this. Unfortunately, if he stays in her life is will end up being a pseudo parent. If you remarried, would you not bring your new SO to the same kind of function? After all, she would be a step mom to your children. Time will ease the hurt. Remain calm and strong, for your children's sake. Link to post Share on other sites
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