Is she on the rebound?

[Cmac]

Hey guys, haven't been here for a looooong time since my bad breakup towards the tail end of 2011. You'll all be glad to know that it's true what they say, time heals all wounds! Totally over that now. But here's the deal, I'm seeing this girl who has just come out of a year and a half relationship a couple of months ago.

 

I met her towards the end of December and we hooked up the same night we met. We continued to text for the next few weeks and have been on a couple of dates since then. She seems like a really cool girl, and I can already feel myself starting to really like her. The other night when we were out though she brought up that she is only a couple months out of this relationship and immediately alarm bells started ringing in my head. I started to think, "aaah sh** I'm the rebound guy" or "she's probably just happy being single right now so just sees this as messing about". Thing is, I got all that out of my system last year after my breakup so I'm looking for something more long term/committed now but have no idea if she feels the same way.

 

I'm fairly certain she slept with another guy a few days after sleeping with me and has, I think, been seeing other guys. Now I know we're not exclusive, and I have no right to be pissed, hell she had only met me once for a few hours when she slept with the other guy. She does seem to be pretty into me, and gives me the whole "awww I'm gonna miss you" whenever I drop her off home and stuff. And she occasionally even throws out plans for us to do a few months from now, albeit I don't know if she's being serious or not or just joking around. So I dunno, I guess I'm just not sure if she's actually into me, if she's just messing around, or on the rebound or whatever.

 

Does it seem likely that only 2 months out of a relationship, which I know she was still pretty torn up about just a month ago, she is just using me to get over her ex? I realise I should ask her myself but I don't wanna freak her out by getting too heavy too soon, but I also don't wanna waste my time with a lost cause. Any thoughts?