ltensail Posted August 28, 2004 Share Posted August 28, 2004 I've read site about flirting tips. It's about "Cocky & Funny", "Postures", "hand languange" etc. It's all about creating attractiveness when two meet each other at the beginning. But as things get more smoothly and steady, when should we(guys) stop practicing the skills learnt in flirting? Of course, not everyone is born with the cocky and funny attitude and other essential flirting skills. So a relationship grows, time spent together will increase and we can't expect to have the right flirting skills on all the time. Am I right? It's not being ourselves so it'll be hard to keep it that way all the time. And if we really stop flirting, which means to stop actively creating attractiveness, will the relationship deteriorates? Sooner or later, in a relationship, we need to stop having the right flirting skills on. So when is it? Link to post Share on other sites
pretty_petal Posted August 28, 2004 Share Posted August 28, 2004 Well, i don't know for sure, but i have always found that flirting need not go beyond the point of becoming official. I mean i'm not saying that you shouldn't flirt every now and then with ur SO because it keeps that romantic charm and newness in the relationship. But then again flirting comes naturally to me, i don't turn it on or off - it just happens, i don't normally notice. So perhaps it is different for everyone else. But to me flirting shouldn't be the main part of getting with someone - no one should begin a relationship on the basis of how much the other flirts and how attractive they are. It should be the flirting and attractiveness that makes a girl notice you. But then you learn to like one another without that and learn about one another. That way the flirting becomes pretty much unnecessary because you see past it. You begin to not need that barrier created by flirting. That might not have helped at all, i hope it did tho petal x Link to post Share on other sites
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