ezy2pleez Posted August 28, 2004 Share Posted August 28, 2004 O.k> I'm new to this. About 3 months ago my fiancee' told me we needed to break up. We have been together for 5 years and have a three year old son together. I got an apartment a few miles from our house and have been there since. I want nothing more than to be back with her but she seems to be sending me mixed signals. She said that I didn't help her enough around the house and that I was not sympathetic to her. And we did fight a good bit but doesn't everyone? For 2 months I called her everyday and went over begging her to take me back. When that didn't work I stopped calling except when I wanted to see my son. Now she calls me every now and then and just called to ask me if I needed some clothes b/c she's gonna buy me some. But, other times she's cold to me. What is the best thing for me to do to get her back? Help. Link to post Share on other sites
shabrown124 Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 My advice to you is give it time. I choose to end a ten year marriage, and it was a decision that was building up... there are times when I too regret the decision, but only when I am feeling particularly vulnerable. Do your desires have a trend? I think when people make this kind of decision it always reflects thoughts we've had for a while. Don't be impetus to reunite, because of long lonely nights or nostalgic moments. Remember that there was a reason for your decision, and until you address it, you will return to the same place. If you made a mistake, ask yourself why. If they made a mistake, ask yourself how much was intentional, and can you accept it should they repeat the cycle. Merging your life with someone else should be a decision that both people come to voluntarily, without a sense of desparation or settling. I hope the two of you the best. Duscha Link to post Share on other sites
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