SEB Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 Hi I'm new to this forum and I've only read a few of the questions. I hope mine doesnt sound too silly. Ok so I've known this guy for over 20 years. I only run into every few years and he calls and comes to visit. He is a genuinely nice person. Very good looking and very down to earth. I can relate to him because I am earthy and deep and I know he is too. He has always been so friendly and nice to me but I could never tell whether that was just him or if he liked me. He never once tried anything. The other day he called because he ran across my number, ended up coming for a visit, and stayed till midnight. We had some coolers but no-one was drunk, we just talked and watched a movie. When he left he pulled me close and gave me a nice hug. We talked 5 min more and he asked if he could kiss me. Gave me a breif but very nice soft romantic kiss. I was taken aback because I never knew anything. So I said that just surprised me. He answered you couldn't have been that surprised. Anyway he showed up the next day to do something nice for my son. I told him that was a very nice kiss last night because I wanted to let him know that I thought it was. I also said again I really didn't know that was coming or he even liked me in that way . I think he thinks I am now going to think he wants me or something. He said I just felt like kissing you- no attatchment to that. I said I know but that was not the purpose of me telling him it was a nice kiss. I think I put my foot in my mouth and I scared him off. After all we've known each other for years. I have to say though every time He''d come around I would think of him for days after. I am definately not a nut, a stalker or going to fall in love with someone because they gave me a kiss but I think I came across this way to him. I want to see him again because I like him as a person but I kick myself for putting my foot in my mouth. I hope this story fits into this forum. Thanks for listening and any advice is appreciated. My best to all. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 Posted it twice by mistake. You have to talk with him. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 I´m not an expert with these things, but that looks definitely weird. He has the courage to kiss you, but feels uncomfortable when you talk with him about the kiss??? Come on, please.... Do you know if he has a girlfriend or wife about whom he "forgot" to tell you? I think he is playing. Leave him or confront him, before you get too disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites
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