Fondue Posted February 9, 2013 Share Posted February 9, 2013 I would avoid it. VD emphasizes too much. You're almost making a statement by going out with her on this particular holiday. I think it would behoove you to make the date a few days earlier, or a few days later. I would even probably avoid contacting her on this day. It just says "too much." Then again, the upside is that feb14th makes women moist and wanting. It'll probably increase your chances at getting laid... Who knows? Link to post Share on other sites
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 9, 2013 Share Posted February 9, 2013 @MsSmurf: Sorry. Hadn't realized you were suggesting doing one of these activities and dinner. Whenever I've gone to a comedy club on a date, we had a nice dinner elsewhere beforehand and chatted there. At the comedy club, it was more about flirting and playfully catching each other's eyes around jokes during the performance. You really can't talk. In that case, I agree it's a great addition. Also, if the guy is too shy to initiate a little innocent touching, dancing gives him an excuse to escalate his flirting a little through touching and eye contact. Salsa is just fantastic and fun anyway IMO! It's also incredibly cheap! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cutiepie1976 Posted February 9, 2013 Share Posted February 9, 2013 ...It'll probably increase your chances at getting laid... Who knows? Yeah? And you may end up with a little VD from your VD experience in that case. Not sure OP is necessarily looking for the possibility of the gift that keeps on giving by asking for a Feb 14th date... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Necris Posted February 9, 2013 Author Share Posted February 9, 2013 Combination of others' suggestions... I think it's okay to have the date on Valentines if neither of you have commitments for that day. It should be clear that there is to be no pressure to celebrate it in the traditional flower/candy/gift way. BUT, if you choose to bring an innocuous single rose, that's okay, I think. For the gift I was just going to keep it real simple, going back to my Elementary School days we were told to give each other a simple valentine's day card and a piece of candy so I thought that would be a little funny. Though the rose thing sounds good. I do want it to be low pressure though. I would avoid it. VD emphasizes too much. You're almost making a statement by going out with her on this particular holiday. I think it would behoove you to make the date a few days earlier, or a few days later. I would even probably avoid contacting her on this day. It just says "too much." Then again, the upside is that feb14th makes women moist and wanting. It'll probably increase your chances at getting laid... Who knows? That's one thing I was thinking about, perhaps it will be seen as too much, right now I'm not really planning on going on Thursday I'm not sure how her schedule is but the weekend will probably be easier. But why would it be seen as "too much" to give a tiny gift on VD? But then again I guess you're right, VD is very much a couples holiday. As for making her moist...., I'm not really looking to get laid, but I would like her to think positively of me. Link to post Share on other sites
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