SouthernBabe0109 Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 [font=courier new][/font][color=violet][/color] Hey i have a question, I'm getting to know this guy before i go out with him, you know, to see if the realtionship is going to work. Well i met up with an old boyfriend at our county fair the other night, and well, to put it bluntly we made out. I feel really bad, but i don't know if i should because i don't even go out with the other guy yet. So, i wanna know what you think, should i feel bad, or shouldn't i becuase i don't go out with him? Link to post Share on other sites
young&idealistic Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 Honestly, I think your post is as kind as can be. No, sweetie! Of course you haven't done anything wrong. It's nice to know there are still people out there who would be worried about kissing someone before they're even dating someone else, but you don't have a relationship with this person! If anything, it will give him the impetus to be with you--to know you aren't sitting around waiting! Don't worry, you haven't done anything wrong. Just decide what it is you want. Oh, and if you decide the new guy is what you want, JUST GO FOR IT! Don't wait forever tossing it around in your head. If he's right, don't keep him waiting. Link to post Share on other sites
Pookette Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 Don't feel bad, you didn't do anything wrong! The old boyfriend is well, old, and the other guy is not someone you were seriously seeing, right? You're ok. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SouthernBabe0109 Posted August 29, 2004 Author Share Posted August 29, 2004 thanks guys for your input but i still feel bad. my best friend is even raggin on me about how i shouldn't have done it, she's not tryin to make me feel better like a friend should, but oh well. i'm really afraid he will be really pissed at me, and i don't want that cuz i really like him, but if he confronts me about it, what should i say to him to show him i'm really sorry, and would take it back if i could, without sounding like im acting? Oh, and no, we aren't officially seeing each other yet, we just hang out when we see each other around, and talk on the phone and stuff like that. my best friend asked him if he was gonna ask me out, and he said not yet, its way too early, i wanna get to know her to see if its gonna work out. Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 Do you still like your old boyfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SouthernBabe0109 Posted August 29, 2004 Author Share Posted August 29, 2004 uh well yeah a lil bit, but now feelin as bad as i do, i know im not gonna go back out with him, cuz i like the other guy more, much more. im just so confused!!! Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted August 29, 2004 Share Posted August 29, 2004 If you still like your old guy it's not fair to try and start something new with this other guy. If you've still got feelings for your old bf, you could end up making out with him again when you're more involved with the new guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SouthernBabe0109 Posted August 29, 2004 Author Share Posted August 29, 2004 no its different, the last time i went out with this guy was a year ago, and i liked him alot for a while, then i got over it, but there is just some feelings there for him, but not enough to start another relationship, also we haven't talked in a long time, well not a real long time, but long enough, so this just kinda happened outta the blue, but i can think of nothing else besides how terrible i feel Link to post Share on other sites
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