If its meant to be they will come back to you.

[djones]

Hey Guys,

 

How are you all today? I feel good today....I was thinking as usual, anyone believe in faith, karma, destiny stuff? I wonder if our souls before we came down here on earth or whatever this place planned our lives and paths and this is how its going to be played out...when you are born they say you forget those plans and you just go through the motions and carry your life out....I asked my mom one day why is all this crap happening to me...she said that you (your soul) choosed that path before you cam e down here....you picked the family you want to be with , your firends etc....I wonder if I *****ed up on the relationship part

I dont know I am a man of science but this part of "pseudoscience" or religion intregues (sp?)....anyone has any thoughts on it I dont know what I am fishing from this, maybe just a reassuance that something better will come along.....i guess what I want is a little peek into the future you know...maybe psychic reading would be good...I dont know if anyone has anyluck with those ie tarro cards, horroscopes etc....hehe mine are usualy wrong.... i think I was born under the 8 ball sign .....Wells guys its firday I thgouht maybe this wierd stuff might be fun to chat about instead of our exs.....(but if someone needs to talk about ex the door is always open).....

[djones]

Hey Guys,

 

*****, I ran into an old friend today and man, it seems like everyone I know is either hitched or engaged....I feel like I am the only one amoung my firends here without someone.....and everyone has moved on with thier lives.....this *****ing sucks.....when is this crap going to end....I think was better off when I was alone for most of my life....

[mj108]

drjones---I know exactly how you feel. You think you're not going to find someone & seeing all your friends coupled up makes you feel alone. You will meet that special girl. Don't give up hope!

 

I'm into the astrology thing. Since I'm a Scorpio, the person I'm suppose to be compatible with are Pisces, Virgos & Geminis. It's funny cause the guys I end up with are generally Leos and Aquarius. HEY---on this forum...who's the pisces...who's the virgo...who's the Gemini I've been searching my whole life to be with? Ha Just kidding. Anyway, I believe some stuff on the astrology thing but some stuff I laugh about. I do believe in soulmates (as you know). I know my ex is my soulmate but now I'm beginning to believe that sometimes we don't end up with them. It sucks--but it's life. He's been blowing up my cellphone with private nos. I know it's him because they are having problems now. Just hope I can keep up the strength.

 

crazydawg--we all need to come up to NY & have a brew with ya! I think everyone needs to meet up & party it up! Ha!

[Nick14]

hahah i am a Pisces,haha born march 18th,haha that should give you something to think about mj .

[backspn]

Dr.Jones....I definitely believe in Karma....ya know....its a bitch . Im not sure that I believe in destiny though. I think I used to but maybe Im just jaded now. I think you meet people for certain reasons and God puts them in our lives for that reason but we just dont know what the reason is. Am I meant to be with her? I think that I am meant to love her and treat her like a princess.....but does she feel the same? Dunno. I think she does...thats why Im still here. When I feel that the time has come to move on from the best person that has ever crossed my path then you wont see me here anymore. Is it time to move on? Not yet. Am I willing to stick it out for a while longer? Yes. Will it be hard? Definitely. Is it worth it? Absolutely. Isnt true love worth your time and effort? I am 28 and this is the only time that I have experienced "true love". Not everyone in their lives get to experience what I have and some of us have experienced. Consider us blessed even though it hurts. Peace.

 

"The eternal optimist"

[Nick14]

Well, I agree to a certain extent. Like what we talked about earlier backspn, with how her friend is telling me i am scaring her and blah blah blah, freaking drama. I love to stick it out, I did it for a month and 3 weeks but I mean, this is pure crap and now i am force to not only cut her friend but cut my ex now. They think they know it all and think there grown up, there not grown up and well whatever. Its there loss what there doing and how they read things the wrong way, try having them walk in my shoes right now, yep they would be doin the same thing I did, thats a big fact! BTW.. MJ is right, if my ex never contacted me first, after the break up then I guess, she doesn't give a crap about me and this relationship. Same thing with her friend who i am friends with, I need support not a damn harsh message to tell me stay the hell away, thats ok she don't give a crap either, yep real friends for you huh, again try walking in my shoes. This didn't have to be this way, any girl would be considered lucky, that there ex still cares and tries to keep communications open.

[djones]

Hey Guys,

 

backspn--I am the same as you I just wonder if our ex's believe they are the "one" for us and I think that she feels the same to me, but how long are we to wait for true love and when doe God intervene to either get them back together or separate them....You know what I mean? like right now we both dont have them so is this it? I mean we all are healing with "time" or are we waiting?....If I sound confusing sorry my mind is not clear today.....

 

MJ-- I wonder about the soulmate crap too....I always thought not matter what you do you will end up with your "soul mate" I dont know what do you guys feel about this "soulmate" stuff....If say our ex's was our soulmates wouldnt we be together?....I dont know...

 

p/s just to add to the group I am Aries...sorry MJ I guess I am not your "soulmate"

[backspn]

You never know when God will intervene. He usually waits until we are at our lowest before he does. If I had to guess....he will show us the one when we ourselves are in order. No.....I dont believe that if we were soulmates than we'd be together. God gives us the choice and it takes time and love to find our soulmate. I know she is mine.....but like you said....does she think I am hers?

 

p.s....I am a Libra and my ex is a Libra. Is that a good thing or bad?

[Nick14]

No, thats not a bad thing. My b-day was in march 18 and my ex was on may7. No differences there, we were compatible, her **** changed, dumb but whatever, her choice, her loss.

[mj108]

Backspun---I do agree with you. You meet people for certain reasons & God puts them in our life for a reason. When I met my ex---2 1/2 years ago...we met & I can't describe the feeling! I never experienced a feeling like that. When him and I met he was 29 & I was 31. Throughout all the years...I thought I found love & I actually found it at the age 31. I thank God to had experience it! Go to http://www.astrology.com Check it out.

 

drjones---My ex & I talked about the soulmates thing. When him and I first met...we knew we were meant for eachother. He told me that I was his soulmate..but hell, who knows...maybe he has been playing me all along. Anyway, we talked about the connection we had. Just like the other day...I had a bad feeling something was wrong with him & then I hear he's having problems with her. One night...I woke up at midnight & thought "Oh my God! I wonder if he is ok?" Well, that night he got into a car wreck around 11:45. I mean, him and I have a connection like no other. We will always have that. HOWEVER, I talked to my bestfriend & she told me she knows who her soulmate is but they could never be together. She's now with a guy who makes her happy & she's been with him for 4 years, but it's not her 'soulmate.' I know I won't end up with my soulmate. I have gave up. He is living with her now & if he's unhappy...so be it. He made his choice now he has to live with it! I hope I will find happiness like my bestfriend & end up with a guy that loves me the way her guy loves her!

 

Nick14---You're a pisces? Hmmm...

 

Update: I went out to eat tonight & had 2 guys at seperate tables giving me the look. lol One of them around 22...(I look younger...lol) & the other look like he was around 30. I walked by the guy that looked 30 & I heard him tell his friend "jail bait." If he only knew how old I am. ha I feel good tonight! I went out with my sister & her husband. I was the 3rd wheel but I still had fun. Just getting out did a lot of good! I feel blessed cause I look younger. Maybe when I am 40 I'll look 30.

[head/heels]

Hey all....i went out with my mates (some of which brought thier SO's) and we dranks at a bar that sells $1.50 crown and cokes and $1.50 mixed drinks so it was great to go out and spend little to drink alot...

 

Anyhow we left that bar and went to a bar where it is more our age there (21-25) i would guess...

 

ooo MJ you would like this..... i am not shy so i started talking to this girl and she was the hottest girl in the bar....blonde above the shoulder curved under hair and unbelievable eyes.....

SO we start talking and i tell her she is stunning and she smiles and gets embarrased a little but i think she had heard that before....

so long story short.... i keep talking to her and i find out she is 31 !!!!!!!!!!!!! I say no way! Get out of town and i dont believe it ....she says she is a navy brat and she has 4 kids, and was married since 19....for 12 years!!!

Her body looked like she was a high shcooler and she was hot as ill get out!!!

But she did have 4 kids one that is 15 (i am 24)..... and i am just not that crazy about that since i am still a kid compared to what she needs.!!

 

But later i did end up running into a girl i hadnt seen since i was in 8th grade (about 10 years) and we ended up hitting it off and talked all night and we felt totally comfortable together.... She stayed at my house until about 4 am and we snogged (kissed) only.....i gave her a backrub and we flirted around and i told her i would call her next week (she is going out of town this weekend--to guess where???? My old uni town where my ex still studies.....my new friend studied up there at the same time as both me and my ex did but i never ran into her b/c there is 36,000 students (indiana university bloomington).... Get this...She even worked at my ex's and I's favorite pizza stop in Bloomington for 4 years and i dont remember seeing her !!!! Can you believe the weirdness there???? Anyway she is very fun and very hot so at least she and i can go out and have fun together and i can continue to work on myself as i get on with my life after the ex......who i still find myself missing but then i feel sad for her b/c she is not in my league and she is going to have a hard time finding the unconditional love i gave her....

 

 

but i am not her keeper and i am happy out on my own now... anybody know where i could get a great deal for financing my first automobile??

 

oh and here is one song that keeps coming back to me when i am singing in the shower (rain).

 

 

"Another"

(feat. Lil' Kim)

 

[biggie] Yeah... fuhc you

[Lil Kim] Fu#k you too!

[b.I.G.] Fu#k you bitch

[Lil Kim] **** you motherf#cker

[b.I.G.] You ain't sh*t anyway, f*ck you

[Lil Kim] You ain't sh*t, you fat motherf*cker

[b.I.G.] Yeah, whatever whatever

[Lil Kim] Whatevah

[b.I.G.] You wasn't sayin that when you was suckin my dlck

[Lil Kim] You wasn't sayin that when you was eatin my p0ssy!

You a nasty motherf*cker!

[b.I.G.] Check it, uhh

[Lil Kim] Crab ass

 

[Chorus One: B.I.G.]

 

What do ya do when yo' bitch is untrue?

You cut that hooker off and find someone new

I need another bitch (another bitch), in my life

 

[Verse One: Notorious B.I.G.]

 

Uh-huh, uhh, uhh

I know he don't treat you like I treat you

Time to explain the game you see through

Sex is lethal, I ain't gon lie

Means to get ya back, I ain't gon try

Like this ya'll, my girl sucked anotha nigga dick y'all

Light skinned with the chrome die six y'all

Thought they was creepin, two trips to V-A every third weekend

While you was sleepin, he hit you on the box

Sixty-nine go non-stop

Shoulda left ya then, but my heart said not

You knew too much, the relationship grew too much

You knew about the crack vials, means to be trialed

Way I hid dough under the bathroom towel

Waited for a while, thought you was my right thing

Then things got frightening

Peep the scene, sorta like Sam Rosten

Guess you ginger, huh, go figure

Never thought you could be a gold digger

Take my dough and spend with the next nigga

Asked my man Trigga, my ace boom coon

Told me cut the bitch off 'fore the **** balloon

Now I'm like Brandy, Sittin In My Room

Pissy drunk listenin to Stylistic tunes

Or the O-Jays, thinkin bout the old days

My nigga's like, **** that bitch, go play

Baller, did she beep you? Don't call her

Guess who I seen, that freak bitch Paula

She was askin bout ya whereabouts

Here's the digits, I know you can wear that out

Tear that out the frame, ya game so tight

You'll be all ****in night

 

[Chorus Two: Lil Kim]

 

What do ya do when your man is untrue?

Do you cut the sucker off and find someone new?

I need another man, in my life

 

[Verse Two: Lil Kim]

 

Mmm, uhhh, uhhh!

Member when you said you would die for me, ****

All of that was just lies to me

Mother****er shoulda never said bye to me

Now you cry for me, like Jodeci

It's like that y'all, my nigga hit another bitch from the back y'all

Black nasty and mad fat ya'll

Shoulda seen the hoe, nigga pack ya ****

You out the door, ohh

What about the fight in the Mirage?

I seen ya Benz, parked outside my sister's garage

Said it was ya friend Rog, bull****

I ain't gonna keep puttin up wit the bull****

And still I, never sweat these bitches

Who be hanged like plaques on the wall and ya pictures

Scalin fishes, my love is concrete

Stashin ya heat in the passenger seat

of the Nautica Jeep, we've been down for so long

Still a bitch like me tryin to hold on

Teary eyed, damn a bitch steamin

Girls steady screamin, 'Kim you need to leave him!'

When I testified in court, couldn't think straight

thinkin bout the bitches I fought

over you, nigga half the **** you bought

And **** you, movin is my last resort

You see nine outta ten niggaz, ain't ****

One outta five niggaz suck a dick

Ya mad at me, too bad she ain't as bad as me

Choulda kept the freak bitch off my canape

Now you see, ain't no pussy warm as mine

Long as mine, ain't no love as strong as this

When I sucked ya dick, it's like smokin a roach

Uhh, I go from first class to coach

 

 

now it is a little racy (SORRY TO ALL WHO ARE OFFENDED) but i always rember the "what would you do if your man/biatch is untrue".......cut the ucker of and find some one new...

 

 

so go for it and dont let these bad exs ruin anymore days....if they come back to us..then we can worry about what we need to do...take them back or leave them crying like jodeci....

 

also, since it is rap, you probably have to either know the song or go download it for it to give off its real meaning and power---they sound real mad at each other in the sonG

 

ATLOUS- i especially like the part in the song where lil kim says " my nigga f'ed another bitch from the back y'all....

black, nasty and mad fat y'all" that remided me to get this song since those diswasher sized girls are what he is screwing up his chances with you for!!! he is going from first class to coach!

 

 

Good luck all i am following every word... and i do want my ex to come to and try to work it out with me but I dont know if i could stomach what she has done with her new bf....if they are indeed bf and gf.....>>"?????

 

just keeping up the NC here and ill let her come to me if she does and if she doesnt, i realize i was the real catch (like all of us) in the relationship not her/

 

night

[atlous]

head/heels LOVE IT! Lil Kim is the best. You are so correct here babe. No matter what we say will only make them resent us more. Let them go and see what other beochs are like and then see where the class is at. He is below me and I am sad for that I can't make him see his mistakes he lives with them everyday. I can't change him either let him cheat on some other ho! How old are you and why did you guys break up? what is your horoscope ( good idea MJ )

[djones]

HEy Guys,

 

Hows everyone doing? I know most of you guys are on vaction ie Kodiak, and MJ108....how everyone else doing? I am doing ok, still miss her, but what can you do but go on....I went for a walk to clear my mind just now....I end up thinking when will my life change, I wonder if I have to do more than what I am doing for it to change...I know in my heart I have done everything I can do for my career and my failed relationship.....and I am just waiting to see what comes up....Thats the hard part, I guess you have to have faith in God that he will help....I am just getting real punchy and impatient....hehe i was thinking maybe I am looking for a burning bush....in this day and age i dont see that happening, unless its on the internet

just a little rant from me...take care

[backspn]

Ok...here's the sitch. I start NC tonight at midnight...why?....cause thats when I turn my phone off for a month.....dont use it much but to talk to her. She calls me everynight and we talk about almost anything but never about us. On Thurdsday her friend introduces her to a friend and they go out for coffee and spend a couple of hours together. Fine. Im ok with that. Sure I'd like it to be me....but she is young and she has to find out that I'm the one for her....yada yada yada. Anyways.....she goes out tonight for 4 hours with friends, watch a movie and have dinner. Again...I'm ok with that. The thing that gets to me is that when I ask if she wants to hang out....she tells me she is too busy and that she has never lied to me before so I should trust her. First of all....I dont trust anybody. So the only conclusions that I can think of is that she does have time but she doesnt want to spend it with me.....or.....she is still afraid to hang out with me cause her feelings might betray her. I think she still loves me but she doesnt want to be with me right now. Are you guys following? I think she wants to date other people and see whats out there(I know its a copout...but she's young...we all were once). I dont want her to be married to me and then years down the road feel like she missed out on her college days. I know what I need to do but it still hurts. I can still be friends with her and still have a chance with her down the road. Tonight is our last conversation for a month(NC) and she was telling me that she is not sure if she wants to get serious with this guy if he doesnt feel the same...yada yada yada. So I told her that one of MY friends sister wanted to go out with me and wanted MY phone number. Now...I didnt do this to get back at her but while we were talking about the opposite sex....why not? She got real quite all of a sudden and said "Im gonna go....call you later". What do you guys think was the reason for her ending our talk so abruptly? We were talking very well up to that point. Do you think she got jealous?

[Nick14]

Ok, one, never ever tell your ex your seeing someone else, unless they ask you. Don't just say it, explains why she said "um..gotta go, talk to you later". If my ex ever called and just said it out of the blue, i probably act the same way as your ex, it would suck.

[backspn]

Im not seeing her...she just wanted my phone number. Who knows if she is gonna call. My ex was the one who told me out of the blue that she was asked out and was going out with him. She was telling me about her date and asking me if she should get deeper into the relationship. I didnt mean to tell her....it kinda just slipped out the wrong way. Whats wrong with her knowing that Im gonna see other people when she tells me she is?

[mj108]

Hello everybody! I'm not on vacation yet. I'm leaving out tomorrow morning. I've had a BAD day. I went to pick up my pictures & most of the pictures were of him & I! Also pictures of the kids. I'm beginning to miss him & the kids. It's tearing me up. I guess I shouldn't had got the pictures developed. Anyway, I was looking through them & started crying like hell...right in the parking lot. So---the tears have finally hit me. I didn't even want to leave to go on vacation today because I've been so upset. 24 days of NC. I'm still keeping that up. My heart is breaking because I look at those *****in Pictures!!!!! Well, I knew one day the tears were going to flow but didn't think it would be today.

 

head/heel--Loved your story. I look around your age. lol I keep up with the styles out there...so you better believe I put on my hip hugging jeans & look like a highschooler. Ha. Most of my friends are younger than me. My bestfriend is 24.

 

Glad to here you ran into that girl you haven't seen in a long time. Sounds like you had fun. I would keep seeing her. Have fun! You're still going to miss your ex but one day she'll fade away from your memory just like my ex will.

 

atlous--Good to hear from you. I'm going on vacation tomorrow so I need you to keep these guys in line. ha lol

 

backspun---Yeah, she got jealous! I mean, it was ok for her to share info about guys to you but once you turn the tables on her--she was shocked. Probably upset her in a way...but apparently she doesn't give a d**m about your feeelings when she's talking about guys. I think you did right.

 

Nick14---How are you? I haven't went on vacation yet...I've had a bad day (read above). I'm trying to hang in there. I'm fixing to go over my friends house...they are having another cook-out. Maybe I should throw all these pictures I have of him & I into the fire? Hopefully, I want run into him over my friends house. I believe I would cry---& I'm stubborn as you know. I don't want him or anybody to see me cry!! Some beach...some where!

[djones]

Hey Guys,

 

How are you all doing? I needed to get out of the house so I went to the casino with my dad, I needed just to get away from thinking about her....well I did for a bit but i started to think about her...but it was ok I did not think about lots which was nice...I pi$$ed away $100 did not win a damn thing...well thats my s***y luck!!..with money and women .....

MJ108-- sorry to hear about your bad day, maybe it was a good thing that you cried it may be closure for you??...I have not cried yet, i dont generally cry so I dont know if that will help me for closure....have fun on your trip and have fun at your firends place....

backspn-- hand in there man, this thing is so hard on all of us....but we will get through it

 

atlous---yeah we need you to help us guys, we need a female on board!!!

 

nick14 how are you doing buddy?

 

well take care guys

[Nick14]

drjones-I am ok man, just getting over things and had a really lonely weekend with not a damn thing to do, except go to the gym.

 

MJ-aww hun...trust me I know how it feels. my ex and I took pics with her parents and my grandfather before we went to the Dodger game, two days before she broke it off. 2 weeks later they were developed and I saw them and I broke down and couldn't not believe how happy me and her looked in that pic, I couldn't understand it I guess. Just hang tough, he doesn't deserve you.

 

Ok guys, I think MJ needs a real vacation. haha ok boys help me out, but I think she needs to go to California for a few days and I'll show her some fun at the beach . I need a poll,haha.

[crazydawg]

MJ goodluck on your vacation, hun. Try and have fun as hard as it is. Everywhere i go i get reminded of **** i know the feeling. When you cried thats good, its your body telling your mind to let go. Its the healing process kid. Anyway have fun hun. You and everyone else deserves it. Your a sweet person i know someone is out there for you. Same witeh me. I left the sweetest girl, for this ****ed up good looking one. I regret it. Your man will also

[backspn]

Thx alot Mj....you always make me feel a lil better. Did you get my PMs? Sorry...but I promise that Im not a stalker . Add me if you can...we can chat. Nick's on there too so we can all chat together. This group has made it easier at times to deal with it all. My roommate says that she got jealous cause she sees me as her crush right now.....someone who takes care of her and is her guy she can rely on. Do you think this is true? Do you think she still cares about me?.....more than a friend way?....is that why she got jealous? I know for a fact that she talks to me way more than she even does to her best girlfriend.

[Nick14]

lol ya btw..your not on AIM right now, haha. Anyway, nah leave your cell phone off, if she really wanted you, she would go to your pad and surprise you.

[atlous]

Ok I caved! I can't hold my hurt inside. I found out today that he really did cheat on me and I thought you a**h*** after everything I did for you so I text mess him this! I hate him and always will he is diseased now.

 

U did cheat on me and to think that I sent you a bday present and God took my baby? now I know why! Jerry said that she was grosse well I thank God for looking out for me.The whole time you were at camp you thought that some fat chick was everything and someone above gave me a sign that u have changed into something dirty and I was not to have a baby with someone who betrayed me. Do you like who you have become a live in nanny that ****s 19 year old hairslyist and bar waitress's who have ****ed the dishwashers? U are to chicken **** to tell me the truth U counldn't even do that after everything I have done for you? Girls in nursing don't know why you are angry U deserve everything that comes to you you are dead to me ***** you. U must enjoy hurting ppl because you have hurt me in the worst possible way.once again ***** you!

 

 

I will never speak with him again as long as I live. He already made up his mind while I was sending him birthday presents and missing him. after three years he says he wants to chage? INTO that! OMG I can't believe that this has happened to me. TO deny it to my face coward! What do think of the letter if you were a guy and cheated? Honest opinions guys I have lost it?

[atlous]

My PM is not working and I do not have AOL I am a canadian hey! Just kidding I do have msn but I never have time so I don't know how to even use it! I know I am pathetic

[mj108]

First of all--I would like to say...I'm going to miss you guys. I am leaving tomorrow. This will be the last post I will post for 4-5-6 days. I don't know when I'm coming back but I just want to say...you all stay strong..be patient & be confident. Get out of the house & stay busy. During vacation--- I'm going to shoot my guns off & go hunting. My mind will be off him. I'm going to make sure of it. If not..then I can vent when I get back. ha

 

drjones---I like the casinos! It's cool to go to them. I'm so glad you got out! I know you thought of your ex..but atleast your mind was occupied most of the time.

 

I didn't cry it all out. I'm stubborn. I try not to cry. I hold it in. Just me. Guys have told me I'm different..guess cause I don't get so emotional. I take the pain in..& try to move on. I'm a very strong-stubborn person...but inside I'm hurting but I will deal with it....strongly.

 

As far as going to my friends house...I went over there & I was very sad. I knew they could tell I had been crying but I told them everything was ok. I shut myself out from them...nothing against them...just me...I have trust issues now & I don't want them to go back telling him what I said, you know? Had a few brews...Hell, I'm on vacation. lol Where is my drinking partner, Kodiak? I know he's on vacation but he needs to come back. ha

 

atlous---you are so cool! The reason why I said you need to keep these guys in line is because I know you have a good heart & you can give good advice. They are good guys here...& I'm going on vacation & I'm worried about them. They are my family-online-therapy friends. lol I know you can check up on them & make sure they are ok. I will be back sometime...few days...maybe 5? Who knows? ha Packing my bags girl & I'm going whereever the road leads me.

 

crazydawg---Thanks so much for you input. We all deserve happiness. We all do here & we will find someone...even if it's not our ex. You say you left a sweet girl for a good-looking one? Well, I tell you one thing...if you could see me & the person my ex is with right now..you would laugh. I mean, this girl is not a great looking person. I'm not either but I know I look a hell a lot better than her. But she has something that I don't have....his kids. But you are right..he will regret it...because he had a fine a*s lookin 33 yr. old that looked 24....that loves him unconditionally....loves him for who he is. His ex is so cracked out! I mean, his friends are asking him "wtf are you doing?" She's so mean to him, but that's what he wanted. I have accepted it now.

 

backspun---I've been having problems with my private messages. I'll check it again. If she talks to you more about things than her bestfriend..then she wants more. She's just trying to be strong & stubborn & trying to run. She's scared of what she's feeling right now. That's why she's going out there to see if this feeling is 'real.' You did the right thing telling her about the girl going to call you. You better believe when I bump into my ex..I will tell him about all the dudes that are calling me. ha Not a lie....the truth. I would never hook up with these guys that are calling me...but I will tell my ex about them. The last time I talked to my ex, he told me he was going back to her. Well, guess what? I'M Moving ON! ***** it...I want to be happy. I can't mope around & cry...I'm stronger than that, you know? When my ex does call me back...& tells me all about her---I will tell him about the people I can hook up with. He can dish it out...so can I!

 

Also, backspun---yes...she cares about you. That's why she got the heck off the phone. Women are emotional some times. When you told her that about the girl, she thought "WTF!" She wasn't expecting it. She felt shocked, stunned, & "he's moving on." She didn't know what to say because she's never heard you talk about another girl.