Author djones Posted October 14, 2004 Author Share Posted October 14, 2004 WantanS4, Thanks man I needed a laugh and a good ***** OFF rant.....I still have a smile on my face....heheh trying to avoid speeding tickets....bet your are Yeah Nick who give a flying ***** if she is there...you go out and have fun get s*** faced if thats your thing its your right to party... Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Nick14, WORD OF ADVICE MY FRIEND................ STOP POSTING.......... JUST COMPLETELY STOP IT... IF YOU CAN........ SHUT DOWN THE SITE....... TURN IT OFF.............. DISAPPEAR! your giving away all your secrets........ and she's sittin there with a big smile on her face knowing you burn for her. ***** THAT! Don't give her the pleasure...... I know it hurts...... but, treat it as a life or death experience. Choose life, and let her burn in hell for her stupidity. If you can, go out... RUN INTO HER..... and pickup the most attractive chick you can...... SMILE like you've been set free, see if she doesn't run out of the club with her head in her hands. Do what Beckham did to his wife...... do all those intimate things to that new girl that your ex thought were exclusive to her. If one day, she fesses up/breaks down and comes crying back....... you choose.......... if you choose to accept her, in time explain to her that you did it because she hurt you sooo bad. Sometimes, we all have to be evil in order for good to come out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Nah i am just not going to post about her anymore, I just wish I had more people backing my side of the story, yeesh. Link to post Share on other sites
Author djones Posted October 14, 2004 Author Share Posted October 14, 2004 Nick14, I agree with Wantans4, dont post on your site, she is just getting more amo to screw with your mind, she likes to know that you are still hurting for her...dont give her that power buddy Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 um..you guys do know its her friend posting, not my ex right? Well if she still wanted me around,then she would love to see me hurting for her,obviously in this case, kinda sounds like to me she doesn't want me in her life. So,I dunno what to think of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author djones Posted October 14, 2004 Author Share Posted October 14, 2004 Nick14, Think of it this way, if her friend knows then she knows right.....if your friend knows something thats someone has said about you, wouldnt he tell you? Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Sorry to jump in here but, not only would she tell her but she'd SHOW her. I know I cldnt resist taking a peek at a website that had my ex profess his undying love to me...even if i didnt want him back... Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Well ok guys, then my question is.... Why would she post if they didn't give a rats ass about me then, why continue to stir the fire? Link to post Share on other sites
Author djones Posted October 14, 2004 Author Share Posted October 14, 2004 Nick14, They want you to react, man to ***** with your mind....they know that its strikeing a cord in you, or that they just want you to stop and go on with your life.... Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Well, drjones, it seems like the latter what in you said, Her friend wants me to move on. I don't see anywhere, where they wanted to **** with my mind, if that was the case,i would be getting responses every day. Link to post Share on other sites
Author djones Posted October 14, 2004 Author Share Posted October 14, 2004 Nick14, Yeah, maybe thats it....i would follows wantans4 advice and not post there anymore...if you want to say you miss her just say it here....we all do I think its better that it stays here.....I know it tough on you and you are going crazy, believe me we all know...it sucks @$$ and all you can do is ride the wave Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Well I posted on my site and basically said, if its goodbye then I guess both of you are not real with me then, and that i deserver better who can appreciate the new me that presented in August. So then I went onto a new topic and discuss whats going on this week with racing and how I am going to vegas and a cruise in december, it not directed toward them, wait "WHO THE ***** ARE THEY AGAIN". read my site with the new post, reply if you guys want, you damn fools. Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 So for now on, I am going to try to be happy and do stuff I want to do. Damn i am tryin to convince MJ to move out to cali,hehe damn she's a sweetheart and wow we have alot in common too. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 Hey, it might be kinda fun4 you guys to check out this link when you have time: http://www.Emode.com The relationship tests here are pretty funny...and sometimes eerily dead on (well, for me anyway ). Im slightly computerly-challenged so I dont think I got the direct link to the tests I like to work, but you can just go to the site and then under the section that says "Premium Tests" click on "Relationships". Theres a whole bunch abt finding out why u choose the mates you do, will you and your partner last (actually I guess we all know the answer to that one...lol), personality tests, and my all time fave--"are you a secure lover?" (turns out I am, go figure, hm). Very deep , stimulating info here... ...Or u cld just find out who your celebrity soulmate is Anything to try and brighten your day guys!! BTW, the the day IS still pretty young, try to make the best of it http://web.tickle.com/tests/relationshipassessment/ Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted October 14, 2004 Share Posted October 14, 2004 All, This one is for the fellas. Be sure to D/L by tomorrow morning at 9:00 am. http://filebox.vt.edu/users/edlopez/LS login: filebox.ls pass:1234 one.mp3 You might want to right click and 'save target as' to save time. Give it a listen, it'll make you fell better. Music has healed me. Link to post Share on other sites
bigacesteve Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Hi all I'm quite drunk and oh what a night. I went to a boxing night, where you go in a suit, eat a 5 course meal and watch boxing live in a ring next to you. We were right next to the ring. I went out with full confidence tonight, I followed my own advice and I'm a god damn genius. I've had a top night, met loads of people and also stopped a big fight from happening. If you didn't know already I'm quite drunk right now. Tonight I was out with my house mates and some of my other best mates. One friend inparticular has just split with his missus of 2-3 years, maybe even 4. He has hidden it before that he is gutted but I can tell. He came to me after we left the boxing place and said 'you're missing her aren't you?'. I thought about it hard and I told him that no I wasn't. He looked stunned. I told him that there was nothing I could do right there right then so why not just forget about it and enjoy myself. He smiled and agreed. We then went to a very rough place called Harrys Bar. We're having a laugh when a girl comes over and starts chatting up all of us. In the end I sat with her and we were having a laugh but I could tell something was wrong. She led me to a quieter area (my mates cheered) and we talked. She straight away asked for my phone number and I asked how old she was and where were her friends. She told me that her friends had gone, she was 19 and she wanted to see me again and would go with me. I told her that it would be a waste of time giving her my number, I could just tell there was more to her. I told her that I had just become single and through difficult circumstances. She told me that she'd been dumped by her boyfriend and he was now with someone else and she was gutted and didn't know what to do. I asked her what she did for a living and if she was studying at the moment. She answered all my questions about her and they all revolved about him and getting back together. She was working in a bar and nothing else because she was waiting for him to come back for her. I sat there and thought oh my god. I told her that she should forget him and concentrate on looking after herself for now, she didn't understand what I was saying. I then asked her what she could do about the situation right now and she said she couldn't do anything. I told her to sort herself out and put herself first and stop approaching every bloke who comes into Harrys Bar, she would just have got more hurt. I think she took got the hint. Next thing it all kicks off. I look outside and 2 of my friends are squaring up to the bouncers, 6 bouncers. I walked out from behind the bouncers and split it all up. I have to admit (without blowing my own trumpet) it all stopped when a bouncer went for my friend and I picked him up with 1 arm and threw him away. They left us all alone then funnily enough. I managed to stop all the fighting and get us all home without anyone being arrested. I've not had a night like this for a long time and I have enjoyed it a great deal, I have missed it in fact. Please all of you, when you get a chance to do something different, please please do it, it's a phecking winner. We get into this routine with our ex's and we forget how to enjoy ourselves when we are alone once more. Our friends will always be there for us, my friends have been there through all 3 of my ex's. Never let me down. Anyway I'm quite quite drunk and it's time for bed. Good night all. Link to post Share on other sites
mj108 Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Update: Well I went over to a friends tonight & they asked about him. I really didn't want to hear his name but from what she says....he is having problems with her (guess that's why he was driving by my house). I will be honest here....He has my heart...I love him...but you all I can't go back to him. He has hurt me like no other person. You don't hurt people that you love...like the way he did me. So I'm going to keep focusing on myself, doing my exercises, put my energy into work, keep tabs on all of you & occasionally have my drunk fest with my pals. Bigacesteve----lol. Take that bouncer down! You're going to be my kickboxing buddy from now on! Ha! I guess, my drunk night was lastnight & yours is tonight. Sometimes we have to unwind in some way. I guess, LexiBs & WantanS4's drunk night will be tomorrow. Ha. drjones---No he doesn't live near me. I'm trying not to break. You know how stubborn I am so I'm trying to hang on to my stubborn-streak. I know you're feeling empty but I think if you get out you'll feel better. I've been pushing myself & it's helped me out a lot. Where's Kodiak??? My drinking brother? He had that fishing/hunting trip didn't he? Hopefully, we'll hear from him soon. Damn, I feel like all of us are a family here. Worrying about Kodiak. Ha. Nick14---Fixing to post on your site. It's going to trip them out. You know I will take up for you...no problem. I will take up for anyone here...feels like we're an online family. ha Like I said before, I promise I won't be ugly but her friend will get the message & it will go back to her (your ex). Go along with it. WantanS4 & LexiB are right...your ex & her friend are gloating about it all...well, it's time to get them back. I know how it is...her friends are yours. Sometimes, you have to give them up though...especially the friend that's on that site! PS---If I could come out to Cali---I would. LexiB--Love the emode! I take test off there all the time. I love it! Keeps the mind busy, you know? If you go to www.ivillage.com it has a lot of things! Go to quizzes. Alot of them!!! Good to hear from ya! WantanS4---I guess your anger is rubbing off on me. That's good though. I'm trying to keep the anger/stubborness going on so I won't call him. It has been 22 days of NC. I'm still getting Private numbers come up on my cell & work no...but I'm not answering it. I figured if it's important someone will leave a *****in message, you know? Avoiding speeding tickets? Ha! I bet you're the driver that will run someone off the road if they piss you off. You are right...most women don't like being alone. Atleast this woman doesn't but I am the type of person that needs their space. Guess that's the Scorpio in me. I'm a southern girl that knows how to cook her fried chicken, homemade mash potatoes & cook the greens up. lol Ha. Well, you guys...got to go for now. I'll post in a couple hours. I have to get work done before I go on vacation Sunday. What am I going to do without you all...my online family? Hopefully, I won't think about that A**hole! Link to post Share on other sites
crazydawg Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 I'm proud of you MJ, I made the same decision as you. You just can't go back. I know things will get better, just come around to NY with everyone else on the board and we'll have some bruskies Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 haha Mj your not online,haha and work at 10:30 at night,yikes. Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Seriously I had the best night. When my ex slept at another chicks house I had a feeling that they did something. I spoke with people who worked with them and they said that everyone was wondering about them and already thought that they were sleeping together. This pissed me off because he had told me that nothing had happened. So what do I do? I phone him. He stays on the line. I ask him that there were rumors flying that he was sleeping with her. He said yah so? I said can't you just tell me the truth that you were in fact sleeping with her while we were dating? he said ***** you I never cheated on you. I heard another rumor that he was sleeping with a 19 year old lounge waitress that we call horse face. He freaked out on me. I said don't you have morals, you are sleeping with everyone that walks by you! he states " why the ***** do you care!" I said because I am worried about you are you messed up or what! He starts screaming at me. I called him dirty and explained that I felt cut because these nasty girls can say that they slept with the same men I have? They are not even near me. These girls are the underdogs of society and UGLY! I asked him if he believes that he can do better and he started screaming at me again so I told him to go ***** his white trash and that he will never be able to treat me like **** again. I though he was a better guy. He is dirty now. I thought he would masturbate before sticking anything in these girls. I have an overwhelming sadness that he has turned into something I never knew. Do you think that his extreme anger stems from the fact that he did cheat on me. He still won't admitt it although she has moved here and they now work together and they are screwing. She is 19 too. I am 26 and he is 23. I feel like he is white trash now. He tells me on the phone to go ***** myself and that I have everything that he is not worthy of me. Spare me the insecurities we were together for three years. Now all of a sudden he is not worthy of me. He's right how could I ever kiss him again knowing where his mouth has been. My friends and family are in a state of shock. I am serious when I say that you should see these girls! WHy is he still so angry and why would he stay on the phone so long. Finally I told him that I was seeing someone that I met when we were still dating and that where does he get off treating people the way he does! I sent him a birthday gift this summer and I lost our baby and through the whole time he ditched me after three years because he thought this fat 19year old was the **** and now he treats me as though I meant nothing to him and his anger towards me makes me feel like I did something wrong! I never did. He is a coward he kept saying on the phone " ***** why do you care let me go " He treats me like the worst disposable **** ever like I did the cheating or something. Why these slimy dogs. these girls have *****ed the diswashers at the resturaunt that I worked at. He has now *****ed three dishwashers see where I am going. I told him to go and ***** himself and realize that he is SERIOUSLY *****ed up more that I can handle it makes me sad to hear that he has no respect for himself to go from someone like me to these 19 year old **** bags! but why all the anger I swear he woke up the dead. He told me to ***** myself and hung up in me. THe next day I am in the ER and I am to look after this new patient well who is with the new patient MY EX! ***** off he told me to go ***** myself 8 hours ago and here I am listening in with my stethoscope and he can't even look at me and he never apologized. What a loser what he did made it easier to go ahead and not look behind but I am still very sad at who he has become. Why is he behaving like this? I never did anything to deserve this ****. I loved him for who he was not where he was going! HELP Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 MJ you are a scorpio too. All men can never forget a scorpio woman! NEVER! I still have exs that wonder if they will ever be with me again! It will happen he will call Link to post Share on other sites
mj108 Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Atlous---Yeah...we are the scorpios. ha We are loyal, devoted, independent, & honest....that's why they always come back. Hang in there girl! I know how it is. My ex is with a psycho B! I mean, she's cheated on him numerous times, she takes his money & she sits on her A** & eats bons bons all day. I know you say your guy ended up with a fat chick that is *****ed up. Well, it's time for us to forget them! We are good girls that deserve a heck of a lot better than people like them. He told you 'to go ***** yourself?' The next time I talked to him...I would tell him that you '*****ed' yourself, fell in love with yourself & it was the best '*****' you ever had!!! Sorry about the lang. here...I'm like WantanS4---I'M FED UP! Why is he behaving like that? Because..just like you said he's a loser & YOU DESERVE BETTER! Atlous---I'm serious. I don't understand guys...here I am at 33 years old & still can't understand them. But time will go on...we will meet someone that will sweep us off our feet. I've gave up on him. It doesn't mean that he isn't my soulmate. Doesn't mean that he's not on my mind 24/7 & in my dreams at night. It means...I've got to move on..for my own sanity, you know? If your ex does come back to you, which I know he will..cause you're a scorpio like me , remember the hurt & pain he's caused you. That's what I'm going to do. I mean, my ex had it made....had a good girl that cooked him romantic dinners etc...I could go on & on. We always tend to do everything for the person we love., I suppose. Anyway, he wanted a *****ed up girl. He didn't want a good girl. I've accepted this now. It hurts deeply. I definetly understand what you're saying when you know where he has been & you can't even kiss him. I feel so sick now because my ex was playing me & sleeping around. You know...I'm glad you said that (about where has his lips been). Now when I bump into the mother *****er...I'm going to put that in my mind. Yuck! It's been down on that psycho-B! She's nasty as hell, girl! NASTY! We don't need guys like this..that are going to sleep around with nasty sl*ts! ***** them! Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 GOD GIRL YOU MAKE ME LAUGH! it is so true all of it. If they think for one minute that they will have luck with these other girls without looking at themselves then they will always be with trash because those are going to be the only girl that will accept that kind of SHEET! We will move on with morals dignity and pride. like hell am I that lonely that I will demoralize myself for some cheap piece of ass which is what he is doing! I will be alone for the rest of my life before I settle. Working on myself and feeling out what I contributed to the break up will only make my relationships in the future the best! And then when we run into them we will be as happy as ever because we took that time! The only thing I can think of that I contributed to the break up was putting up with the dumbass and not thinking I was worth more thinking that he was the cats ars now I know I was! MJ you rock never let your head down for you will attract losers! They like women like us who are not that easy to get because we are so busy being confident and in love with ourselves! Scorpio to scorpio no woman will be able to please them they way we did sure as hell not some 19 year old fat chick! Link to post Share on other sites
mj108 Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 Atlous---you're right! No 19 year old chick is going to satisfy him. She's just learning you know? lol You're the scorpio that rocked his world! The hell with them! We're probably the ones in their dreams at night cause we're the ones that gave them the best sex ever. ha Scorpios tend to do that because we rule! They are with their nasty gals & then they'll try to come running back to us. ***** that...I'm not touching it! Link to post Share on other sites
bigacesteve Posted October 15, 2004 Share Posted October 15, 2004 My head hurts. I am never going on the p1ss again. Well not till Saturday anyway. atlous if the 'man' is yelling abuse at you then ***** him off, that's no way to treat a woman. Like you said, do you really want him near you after he's been with every dishwasher around? After I split with my ex ex she was going out with all kinds of men. I just thought there's no way I'm having sex with her again, she's a bio-hazard! My 'old fella' would probably drop off if it came within a foot of her. The other night I spoke to my ex's mum and her mums partner. We had a good chat about things and her mum told me to just give her time and space to sort herself out. I told her mum that I have someone interested in buying my ex's computer. I know that this is a mega stress in my ex's life at the moment but she still hasn't told me if she wants me to sell it. I can't believe how immature and pathetic it is that she can't even tell me a simple yes or no. I don't want to get back with her, I don't want to go around her new house, I don't want any repayment in any form, I just want to help her with this 1 thing. I'm going to speak to her later because it's important she sorts this out or she could end up in mega debt. I could pick the computer up at her mums if she wants; she wouldn't have to see me then. Why don't they let anyone help them, her mum was saying the exact same thing to me. I need to know because my friend is asking when he can have the computer. I will do this then I'm off. Link to post Share on other sites
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