somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 You've been told wrong. "No matter what, no matter when, no matter who; any guy has the chance to sweep any girl off her feet. He just needs the right broom. " - Hitch That’s right! That’s what you get! Look at you, ship all banged up! Who’s the man? Huh? Who’s the man? Wait until I get another plane! I am going to line all your friends right beside you!"- Independence Day Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Yes leagues do exist. I've basically been told (by women) that if a girl above average in looks, she can get any guy she wants and that there is no point in trying to pursue her. It really sucks seeing women every day that I know I will never have a chance with. That really only is a man issue. Women don't look at a guy and think that he's out of her league. As long as the girl is halfway decent looking, she can pretty much date any guy she wants as long as he's single. And even then that won't always stop somebody. Have you ever thought the reason you have the issues you do is that you are way too clueless? Up the social/emotional intelligence if you want to get anywhere in life, specially with women. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 How do you come to the conclusion that there is no point? Plenty of my own personal failures. I've also shown some women on this forum pictures of me and girls I was interested in, and they basically told me that those girls could get any guy they want and I shouldn't really bother. Women don't want every guy, or just any guy. You could be the guy she wants But first you have to show her your charming, attractive qualities (I know you have them!) The huge major problem, is that any halfway decent looking girl with a cool personality pretty much has her pick of men. So to get a girl, the guy has to compete with many other men. It's a total pain. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Have you ever thought the reason you have the issues you do is that you are way too clueless? Up the social/emotional intelligence if you want to get anywhere in life, specially with women. How would "upping the social/emotional intelligence" affect anything? Is understanding and accepting that women have dating issues, going to make every woman want to date me? Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 How would "upping the social/emotional intelligence" affect anything? Is understanding and accepting that women have dating issues, going to make every woman want to date me? No, but not saying stupid things might increase your chances in getting a girl. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 No, but not saying stupid things might increase your chances in getting a girl. Since I only say "stupid things" on this site, does that mean I'm decreasing my chances of getting a forum girlfriend? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 If I start believing the craze that is in the heads of most posters. Can someone please explain to me how the hell I am single? Or how half the women on this board is single? Or how they are single women? Or how women end up settling for FWB's with guys if they can get relationships with any guy? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 If I start believing the craze that is in the heads of most posters. Can someone please explain to me how the hell I am single? Your choice. Or how half the women on this board is single? Their choice Or how they are single women? Their choice Or how women end up settling for FWB's with guys if they can get relationships with any guy? Their choice Any more questions? Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Since I only say "stupid things" on this site, does that mean I'm decreasing my chances of getting a forum girlfriend? What you say on this forum, given it's what you really think and not some staged persona to seek attention, shows where you stand in terms of social intelligence. And that's not a good place to be to attract females. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 It must be because we are all below average looking, since an average woman has so many options 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I think I know why you don't get girls now.... Why? Because I gave a Will Smith movie quote? You gave one too, so that means you won't get girls also! Link to post Share on other sites
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted February 11, 2013 Author Share Posted February 11, 2013 Really? I had our OP pegged as early 20's, tops. Boy was I out of range. I'm actually not that age or the other age. Early 30s. It IS easy for him to do that provided he is normal looking. He just needs a social circle and to get out more. I was getting around 1 girl (not all slender) a month in my old town when I went to parties two days a week. I used to go to parties and bars all the time. I've been rejected tons. Most times flat out without even getting in decent conversation. Yes leagues do exist. I've basically been told (by women) that if a girl above average in looks, she can get any guy she wants and that there is no point in trying to pursue her. It really sucks seeing women every day that I know I will never have a chance with. That really only is a man issue. Women don't look at a guy and think that he's out of her league. As long as the girl is halfway decent looking, she can pretty much date any guy she wants as long as he's single. And even then that won't always stop somebody. Pretty much. I see women every day that I'm extremely attracted to. Maybe they are all out of my league, but that was the point of the post. Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Your choice.Their choiceTheir choiceTheir choice Any more questions? Did you miss the part when you said women can have any guy they want? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 What you say on this forum, given it's what you really think and not some staged persona to seek attention, shows where you stand in terms of social intelligence. And that's not a good place to be to attract females. Are you trying to say it isn't the women's fault? Haha Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 somedude, why are you so annoying? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 What you say on this forum, given it's what you really think and not some staged persona to seek attention, shows where you stand in terms of social intelligence. And that's not a good place to be to attract females. Mes, think for a second. Would I actually talk about this subject with other people in person? Around women? Unless you can give me another example of why I'm lacking social intelligence, I'm going to think your full of it. Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Mes, think for a second. Would I actually talk about this subject with other people in person? Around women? Unless you can give me another example of why I'm lacking social intelligence, I'm going to think your full of it. The fact that... nevermind Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Mes, think for a second. Would I actually talk about this subject with other people in person? Around women? Unless you can give me another example of why I'm lacking social intelligence, I'm going to think your full of it. The fact that this is all you got from my post shows you lack all kinds of intelligence, no offense. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 somedude, why are you so annoying? Do you really want to go that direction, knowing your history on this forum? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 The fact that this is all you got from my post shows you lack all kinds of intelligence, no offense. Then explain it to me. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Did you miss the part when you said women can have any guy they want? Here's the thing, some guys just want sex. If the girl knows that, and still accepts a FWB while she wants more, that's her own fault. Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Then explain it to me. I already did. Here's the thing, some guys just want sex. If the girl knows that, and still accepts a FWB while she wants more, that's her own fault. How was your math in school? Just curious. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Here's the thing, some guys just want sex. If the girl knows that, and still accepts a FWB while she wants more, that's her own fault. Are you missing the part where you said girls can get any guy they want.?Guys who just want sex are included in any guy. Yet you believe in standards. Yet you know fat chicks who may have been interested in you. Are they not girls? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I already did. How was your math in school? Just curious. No, you didn't explain anything. You just made a statement. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Are you missing the part where you said girls can get any guy they want.?Guys who just want sex are included in any guy. Yet you believe in standards. Yet you know fat chicks who may have been interested in you. Are they not girls? I said halfway decent looking girls. Link to post Share on other sites
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