I Hate This Girl My Man Is Talking To. How Can I Make Her Leave Him Alone?!

[sweetgirl456]

this girl my man has been talking to is really pissing me off. she says things in her webpage that intentionally is directed towards me. i know he likes her more than he likes me. i kind of know this. i'm trying to break them apart, because i'm the only who really loves him. i hate her for being so mean to me. what can i do that will make them leave each other? i'm so angry at her and him!!!!!!! HE WON'T ADMIT THAT HE LIKES HER! AND IF HE COMES HERE TO SEE ME, THEN I KNOW I WILL HAVE TO GO BACK SOON, BUT I WANT HIM TO GET RID OF HER! I HATE HER!!!!!!! what can i do to make them leave each other? SHE CAN'T BE THE ONE CALLING HIM HUN, SAYING THAT SHE LOVES HIM...I WANT TO BE THE ONE. I'VE TRIED TO GET RID OF HER USING BLACK MAGIC, BUT I'M NOT WILLING TO GO THAT FAR AND I DON'T BELIEVE IN BLACK MAGIC...HOW CAN I MAKE HER GET AWAY FROM MY MAN. I WISH SHE WOULD JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE! HE'S MINE, I FOUND HIM FIRST. SHE SHOULD LEAVE HIM, BECAUSE I MAKE THEM LEAVE EACH OTHER AND FIGHT HER TILL THE VERY END.

[emra]

I would have to say, that there is a lot of jealousy going on here.

Does this guy love you? Does he get on this web-page when you are around?

 

Maybe, you should reconsider this relationship all together. It seems to me that he has no regard to your feelings.

 

You said you know he likes her more then you, Then why are you doing this to yourself? Take care of yourself. Is he really worth this. You can't make someone love you the way you love them.

 

Obviously he doesn't care anymore then she does that he is hurting you. It is a cruel world and to continue with something that is already like this, will only make it miserable for you.

Have you told him how you feel? I know your situation, not to that extent, however, it sucks..

[YellowLioness]

i know he likes her more than he likes me

 

ahem...why are you with this guy?

 

what can i do that will make them leave each other?

 

You can't. Its the whole free will thing: you cannot force someone to do something they do not want to do. If YOU are unhappy, then you should leave him. You should tell him how it makes you feel: (i.e. degraded). If he does not comply to your wishes, then perhaps you two are incompatable as boyfriend and girlfriend.

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I'VE TRIED TO GET RID OF HER USING BLACK MAGIC, BUT I'M NOT WILLING TO GO THAT FAR

 

well, did you use it, or didn't you use it? You realize that it will come back on you three fold, correct? Some people think its hokey, but its best not to take chances with the dark occult, IMHO.

HE'S MINE, I FOUND HIM FIRST. SHE SHOULD LEAVE HIM, BECAUSE I MAKE THEM LEAVE EACH OTHER AND FIGHT HER TILL THE VERY END.

 

You do not own him. No one really owns anything or anyone. This type of attitude will only end in heart break for you. It does not matter if you found him first or thirty first. If his heart is with you, then he will be with you. If it is not, then there is nothing you can do to keep him. Besides, wouldn't you rather be with a man who appreciates your love and loyalty, rather then one who treats you like crap?

 

IMHO, you are dangerously obsessed with this guy. It is unhealthy for both you and him. Your strange behavior is probably pushing him away from you. Personally, If I had a man to treat me as jealously as you are him, I would have already dumped you.

 

You may want to consider therapy. Your feelings are not average and are not healthy.

[Mr Spock]

Hey. We've ALL been tempted to sacrifice a chicken at one point. What makes this guy so worth it?

[faux]

You say this guy is your man, but then you want this other girl to leave him. I don't understand. Is this man your boyfriend? Are you two in a committed relationship? I'm not sure I understand enough to really say much to this situation.

 

I know I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a person who liked another person more than she liked me. I also would never consider any type of magic, seeing as I find all that sort of thing rather silly.

[sweetgirl456]

well, i've lived with this guy for 2 weeks, and a week before that. hmmm...we're not exactly bf and gf, but we're kinda intimate together. i just didn't expect her to say that she loved him and missed him and called him hun. i can't believe everything is ruined right now. he doesn't even talk to me as much anymore. he wants me to go back to live with him, but now i wonder why i will even do it, when she loves him and i think he loves her. WHY WOULD I WANT TO MOVE BACK, IF HE LOVES HER AND SHE LOVES HIM AS MUCH AS I DO? I'LL JUST GET MY ASS TOSSED BACK HOME AFTER HE USES ME. PEOPLE SAY HE'S ONLY OUT THERE TO USE ME FOR SEX TOO. WE'RE NOT BF AND GF, WE KIND OF WERE, BUT NOW IT'S RUINED BECAUSE OF HER, SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY I FEEL TOWARDS HIM AND THERE'S NOTHING TO MAKE HIM FEEL THAT I LOVE HIM ANYMORE, BECAUSE SHE LOVES HIM JUST AS MUCH AND CAN EXPRESS IT JUST AS WELL. I DON'T KNOW WHY HE WOULD JUST WANT TO USE ME AND SEND ME BACK HOME. I SHOULD BE GETTING UNEMPLOYMENT MONEY AND FREE CAREER TRAINING, BUT NOW I WOULD BE GIVING IT UP TO SOME GUY WHO LOVES ANOTHER WOMAN, AND JUST SCREWS EVERYTHING OVER FOR ME, JUST BECAUSE HE WANTS THE SEX. AND AFTER THAT, WON'T LOVE ME ANYMORE. THAT WOMAN IS IN THE BACK OF HIS MIND THE WHOLE TIME TOO. WHY WOULD HE BE SUCH AN a**h***.

[sweetgirl456]

i wouldn't mind being with someone else, but now sex is new to me. i need to get it somewhere and i love him, but he's ruining everything for me, esp with that other woman around. a woman who really likes him is around now. i'm scared to have sex, and when i'm with him, it feels alright. but now that he loves her, i don't even want him around anymore. but i get desperate, because i want a guy, and if he calls, i'll probably go back with him to his state. i need the sex with him too, he's the first guy i've ever been with. and i don't get asked out much. but i hate that he'll leave me and that she loves him and he loves her!