landent Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 There's this guy at work that I constantly have to interact with due to work. At first when we used to have work related conversation he used to look away or look at a distant object a clear sign that he was absolutely bored and had interest in making any contact with me. I don't even remember when it started but suddenly while we're conversation we started looking into each others eyes , lately its been prolonged eye contact where there's strong connection between us. Its like I could feel him just by gazing into his eyes and I know he feels the same way too. Ever since then he's became I've noticed more cheerful and I find him trying to make prolonged eye contact with me. At times he forces himself not to it shows , but when our eyes lockin I can't help but feel strong attraction and I'm sure it shows both in the way I look and on my face he does the same thing too. Now the thing is he's almost 20years older than me and recently got married no child. I'm just wondering why do I keep this going when I know with absolute belief that me and him is just not possible in every way. But I don't want it to end for now its just the prolonged eye contact nothing more even so it makes us both him and I , I suspect feel good. I know he's not intentionally flirting with me, its genuine attraction. So what should I do? The more I feel this strong connection with him through our eyes obviously the more I want to see him. I don't want this to get out of hand but I want this keep going without progressing into anything troublesome if u guys know what I mean. Any advice or second opinion will e be appreciated. b Link to post Share on other sites
animalover Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 There's this guy at work that I constantly have to interact with due to work. At first when we used to have work related conversation he used to look away or look at a distant object a clear sign that he was absolutely bored and had interest in making any contact with me. I don't even remember when it started but suddenly while we're conversation we started looking into each others eyes , lately its been prolonged eye contact where there's strong connection between us. Its like I could feel him just by gazing into his eyes and I know he feels the same way too. Ever since then he's became I've noticed more cheerful and I find him trying to make prolonged eye contact with me. At times he forces himself not to it shows , but when our eyes lockin I can't help but feel strong attraction and I'm sure it shows both in the way I look and on my face he does the same thing too. Now the thing is he's almost 20years older than me and recently got married no child. I'm just wondering why do I keep this going when I know with absolute belief that me and him is just not possible in every way. But I don't want it to end for now its just the prolonged eye contact nothing more even so it makes us both him and I , I suspect feel good. I know he's not intentionally flirting with me, its genuine attraction. So what should I do? The more I feel this strong connection with him through our eyes obviously the more I want to see him. I don't want this to get out of hand but I want this keep going without progressing into anything troublesome if u guys know what I mean. Any advice or second opinion will e be appreciated. b Because you are a mature and faithful woman who respect her husband so much that flirt at work with a 20 years older man... Your husband is very lucky to have you... Link to post Share on other sites
GSB81 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Because you are a mature and faithful woman who respect her husband so much that flirt at work with a 20 years older man... Your husband is very lucky to have you... I think he's the married one. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
animalover Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I think he's the married one. I see... I think I misread the post... anyway...pursuing a married man is also a pretty low movement ... Link to post Share on other sites
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