jessy Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 My boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on me. I don't know what to do with myself. We live together and have a 3 year old son. I am so hurt and angry. All I keep thinking about is him having sex with her. I can't eat, sleep or drink. Every time I have a moment I cry. How do I get over it or forget it? WHat do I do with him? I am at work right and I can't even work, Please help me Link to post Share on other sites
overseas2004 Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 Hi Girl I am sorry to hear about your predicament. That must be really tough? Well first of all your boyfriend is more than a bf. He is the father of your child and almost pretty much your husband for all intensive purposes. So a break up is not just a thing that I would reccomend just like that. But what I would suggest is that for right now you do have to let him know that what he did was wrong. I would suggest telling him he has to leave. And then take it from there. I know you cant eat or sleep. I have been there and done that. But that will pass eventually. What will not pass is your distrust and animosity of him if you just let him glide over this. Also please do tell us more about how this all came to be. More details please. So that we can help you make sense of this and make further steps.... Regards Overseas2004 Link to post Share on other sites
jessy Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 well for some time we were not doing so good. but i would have never thought its was that bad. Then for the past few months lets say 3 or 4 its being going well. Here is what happened i picked him up from the airport and everything was great we were happy. the next day my son had his phone and took away from him and what luck she happens to call. And before I even say hello she goes n says "it's 4 months and still no call". I was like excuse me. She was like who is this i said who are you trying to reach and she said my bf and I said i'm his gf. And she didn't say ne thing then hung up. He said we had a fight and him and his brother which hates me was hanging out and he called her to meet up with them. Whatever whatever, I can't think about it. He said it only happened 2x times like I am supposed to believe that. I keep thinking of the things he may have done with her and where he may have touched her. its eating me alive. I was so good to him, too good. I really am lost please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
Faye Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 Jessy, I feel your pain. My boyfriend of 15 years cheated on me. Though I forgave him for his infidelity, the trust is out of the door. Just recently I found a love letter he wrote her. Check this out, he mailed the letter to her and it was returned to my address due to wrong street. What is done in the dark, comes to the light. Like you, I am also a good woman. I think about him having sex with this 18 year old over and over again. When we make love, I wonder have he done the exact same thing with her. To let you know, they do it all, traditional sex and oral sex, I mean everything. It is sad! I thought I was special when it came to the oral sex. But I guess not. I too disapppointed. Link to post Share on other sites
sherry Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 ok Link to post Share on other sites
sherry Posted September 28, 2004 Share Posted September 28, 2004 I to am with a guy who is much older then me and have kids by him who is cheating on me i feel bad because i allowed myself to deal with it and try to make him see that I am a good woman. I have never cheated on him. my friends hate that we are together because they no he is not good how can i build up the strength to be without him. i have so much love for him and i don't want to be alone. please someone don't discrimnate on me but help me Link to post Share on other sites
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