Husband is hurting and confusing me

[catwoman]

My husband has always loved big breasts. I'm small and petite. Although he says he happy with mine, he's seeking out pills and creams that will enlarge my breasts (on the internet).

 

Am I to assume I'm not good enough the way I am? Can a guy get more turned on by his fantasy woman than his own wife? I'm hurt and confused. I don't know how to handle this.

[The_Analyzer]

First of all he shouldn't be seeking out pills and creams for you no way. Sounds controling. If that is something you wanted to do, then fine. However, if you are happy with your body and the way you look thats all that really matters. Yes we all want to look good to our spouse or s/o but what we have on the inside is what counts. You need to tell him how you feel. Then after you do that, tell him you're going on the internet to look for penis pumps, or penis pill enlargements for him and see what his reaction is. Good luck.

[jmargel]

Next time you see him searching for that on the net, ask him to search for pills to enlarge his penis. I surely get enough spam of that in my email.

[catwoman]

You know what? You're right. Maybe it's time for him to taste his own medicine.

[boobies]

My husband was a boob man. I finally told him that I'd get breast implants, if he'd get a penis implant. That just hurt his feelings, and he didn't even see the comparison.

 

*sigh* My husband even looked at busty porn. He was so into big boobs.

 

So guess what I did...divorce him? Nope...

 

I got breast implants

 

I'm not sure if I got them for me, or him. I'd always wanted bigger boobs, but I never considered surgery. I guess due to lack of income, I just never thought it would be possible. I'd always stuff my bra before I ever met my husband, so I know that I've always wanted them.

 

I guess the fact that my own husband was disatisfied with my body hurt me so much that It pushed me to have the surgery.

 

I'm not going to say that I got them for him, but I'm not going to say that I didn't either.

 

I'm very ashamed of myself. I'm a wuss.

[MassiveAtom]

I think I agree, a taste of his own medicine will do good. But it might be even more helpful if you come right out and ask him about the issue. Don't take ANYTHINg personally, but try to hear what he's saying, and not let it affect you. Course I don't know if that can be done. I've never been able to successfully remain detached in a conversation with my wife.

 

I hope you find your solution.

 

Hey boobies,

 

I think you just had the reason, will, and finally the resources to do what you've always wanted to. I that right? Or am I mistaken?

 

mA

[mudobber]

If you had big breasts, he would want small breasts. I had recently complemented my pal for his big breasted wife, and he politely let me know that he was tired of the big breasts.

 

Once I caught a gal coming off the rebound from a guy that had an affair with a big titty chick. I didn’t care, hey she was a gazelle! And I almost had to fight the guy when he realized the nice snatch he had forsaken.

 

I personally like all sizes. It’s the nipple that counts. You know the ones that you can really get a hold on…

 

Anyway, perhaps if you could post a picture of your breasts, you could some feedback from the guys of what they think. I am sure that they will all give great feedback. I know I will.

 

And hey, a great idea! Just digitize the picture of your boobs and make it your avatar! That way you can always proclaim that you are proud of your tits!

[powershot20]

I guess I wouldn't count because I've been married less then a year. But I would be checking out whats in his head. Whats he been looking at. Whats he been talking about with co-workers or friends. If he started out with you being petite and was happy then something affected him. Could of been a sex scene in a movie theatre that sparked his interest and later relaying how it looked with co-works or friends. Dudes can be a weird species. I know I am one.