A marriage without passion...

[zackburnet]

I think counseling is a solution of your problem. for 10 years you do not express yourself what you feel on your husband, but he is very love you, to me, if you were to make a drastic action, you actually destroy the future of three daughter. Love and friendship are two different things. Try to spend time together without the presence of three daughter. you and your husband need to spend more time together without anyone's interference. once again, counseling is the best solution.

[zackburnet]

I think counseling is a solution of your problem. For 10 years you do not express yourself what you feel on your husband, but he is very love you, to me, if you were to make a drastic action, you actually destroy the future of three daughter. Love and friendship are two different things. Try to spend time together without the presence of three daughter. You and your husband need to spend more time together without anyone's interference. once again, counseling is the best solution

[Quiet Storm]

Kids aren't concerned with the passion in their parents relationship. Kids aren't concerned about their mother finding herself and being "happy".

If both parents are stable and considerate to each other, kids aren't going to care one bit that their sex life sucks and mom isn't attracted to dad anymore.

 

I don't think it's fair to turn your kids lives upside down because you need more passion or because you aren't happy. Find passion and happiness in hobbies, friends, activities, etc.

 

I would never want my kids to feel that my happiness was more important than their stability. I would never want them to see me put my quest for passion above their need for an intact family.

 

You have a good husband that loves you. You have an intact family, which is optimal for raising successful kids. You are fortunate, and ready to throw it all away for "feelings". Don't assume that happiness is on the other side...you may end up feeling more unhappy than ever.