Trouble at dating

[niceboys10]

Hey ladies & gentlemen,

 

Here's my story and please if you would read all and advice and give me tips.

 

Well, I am 22 yo guy, good looking and in college. Well, I came to US about 5 years ago didn't know no English but now its better I guess. I just have really hard time get someone on dating. There is a couple of reasons I think why I am not able to, and if you could just give me some advise on them.

 

1- well, I don't think my English is a problem now because I just even have a little accent and can talk and understand but I am just so shy. I can see myself sitting on a table with a girl at a coffee shop and I am just so shy. I may really have nothing to say unless we talk over email or text so much before meeting up that I would have some subject to bring up. So I am shy

 

2- Second reason, I am always busy and too smart. I hate to call myself smart but other people who know me very well, call me "Smart Boy" lol, anyway, my monthly income is around 50k and yes annually about 600 thousand. Yes, I could go buy a Ferrari and pick up a girl BUT I hate that. That girl is not coming for me, she is coming for Ferrari so F*** that. I love to drive my beat up car and as long as I enjoy which I LOVE IT, I don't care what others say!

 

3- I don't have time ;( school + my main job working from home + second job which only pay me 9$ an hr that I picked to just be outside of my house and do some hard working like other college students. I just don't have time, I am scared that even if I go to date someone, I may not even have lots of times to hang out with her. ;(

 

4- I have no friends. No face book or anything. The only friend I have is my father and family members. I don't look at my dad as a father. We are just more like best friends and I don't call him "Dad" I call him his first name and we fight and laugh and basically good friends. So if I have free time, I just hang out and sit with my dad.

 

5- And lastly, the bad problem I have is I hate wasting time "hanging around" with friends or GF. I don't see a reason, why we should hang out or go to bar or party. So yeah, I know its a bad habit but I don't like actually take vacations or go see places or hangout.

 

 

So yeah, sorry it became long but I guess I am just too shy to meet at the first time and second is, I don't have much time to make her happy or if I take her to a movie then my phone will ring 100 times that I have to answer important phone calls. So would really like to hear from you guys, what and how should I fix my problems and being so shy?