Kevin Kristopher Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 Did the no contact thing for the entire summer pretty much an now school has started and she called me first day of classes when we were on campus. I met up with her for like 5 min. then we said we would call each other. I still have feelings for her but i have a feeling she is talking to someone new now. So now as much as i don't want to know i feel like i need to know to move on. I want to ask her out to dinner an a movie and just ask her if she is talking to this guy but ask her in a way that i don't sound like i want to get back together. Could someone tell me if this is a good idea or give me some advice on what i should do, thanks alot and this site is awsome. Link to post Share on other sites
doubledown Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 Either you want to get back with or you don't. Sometimes you just have to sac up and take that chance. Ask her straight up, if she says that she is sseing him and why do you want to know, say "I just wanted to see if we could make it work again, but I guess not, see ya 'round". Then cut all contact. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
emra Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 I agree, you need to figure out for sure that, this is something you want in your life and 1st not just because, you assume, she is talking to someone else. Sometimes, not realizing it, we all do those things. To see is we would win. Not saying that is the case here. If you truly want the answer, the best way to just ask her. Be ready for any response, because, she could get mad, sad, happy anything, you never know. Link to post Share on other sites
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