Karlise13 Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 Kiss My.... So glad to hear you're walking out of this man's life. Good luck. You will end up with much better, I'm sure. With regards to the wife: don't underestimate her. Chances are, she already knows about the affairs. You will likely come across as the 'woman scorned' and MM will paint you as such. "Hon...I ended things with her and now she wants to destroy our family..." You're just giving him ammunition. It's really not your place to 'help' this woman end her 'blah' marriage. That's for her to decide and I'm quite positively sure she already knows it's 'blah'. To throw acid on her wounds with, "....hey, and I was schtupping your husband by the way...." Well, it may feel good to you. But it will be a nightmare for her to hear it from your mouth. She will feel pitied and belittled.....or PISSED and take her husband's side, portraying you as the 'little harlot' who tempted him and then tried to 'destroy' him. Move on, is my suggestion No, I'm not a wife. But I feel strongly about this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KissMyTiara Posted September 4, 2004 Author Share Posted September 4, 2004 Originally posted by sinner Great, kmt. I'm so happy to hear about your Euro road trip. Have fun, meet lots of guys and party hard. Meanwhile, I'll stay here and bill! Well, it's not exactly a road trip - staying with family, just to "get away." But I don't envy you - luckily, I did some math before I left and figured out I only need 120.4 hours a month to keep the managing partner happy... hehehe. This is odd though, I apologize to my UK friends, but for some reason I didn't think I'd have access to any of my sites from back home...it's a relief to have this outlet still available to me. I brought a female friend with me, same color hair, same name, same clothes...I feel like I am looking in the mirror all the time. BUT, she's happy, and I am not. As for the MM, I kinda picked a fight with him before I left over the breakfast issue. He came over, we were intimate for hours and hours, and he left without eating breakfast (I went to the store and got certain types of food that only he eats, and now it is rotting in my fridge). We spoke before I left for the airport about it, and clearly he thought I was a whiner or something, and he said in a very harsh voice, "Look, I am sorry, but I am NOT going to fight with you." I said ok and hung up on him. He called back shortly, and apologized, saying that he desperately did not want to fight with me because we wouldn't be speaking for such a long period of time. Regardless of his sweet apology, his first response to my own concern spoke volumes. It wasn't the words, it was his tone. I heard sooooo much in that statement. And now I sit here crying. Thank god I am far away and can't see or speak to him right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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