Lonestar Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 For miggsbucks, dreamguy, fishman, and everyone else.... I finally called the X today and laid it all on the line. I asked him straight out if it would bother him should I start seriously dating someone. He admitted it would, that he thought I was already doing it because I hadn't called him for two weeks (yes I was dating someone), and that he still cares about me. He doesn't know what he wants to do about it. He tried to say the reason for caring was that I was his baby's mother, but more truth came out to say otherwise. He also admitted that the "sex" was not all about sex. That's where that stands, but the last time we were together it as awful because he hardly showed me any affection, and then I find out today all this. What's up with this guy? Dreamguy, analyze him will ya? LOL. How can someone care about another, still love them, but not do anything about it while they watch them slowly dissapear into someone else's arms? Link to post Share on other sites
Velveteel Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Sometimes we do love someone, but no longer want to be with them. Your two-week silence really shook up your ex, so he told you about his mixed feelings. This doesn't mean he wants to re-commit to you. It only means that you're very special to him, and that it hurts to let you go. Not what you wanted to hear, maybe, but not so very bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lonestar Posted August 31, 2004 Author Share Posted August 31, 2004 Maybe so, if your read the story on the surface, but we let go of each other a long time ago. Divorced for two years. We started using each other for sex about three months ago (an excuse to see each other), and this was the most recent development. It did not bother him that I was with anyone before, it's only bothering him now because he has feelings again. The guts of the story is in the no contact thread that was closed. Link to post Share on other sites
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