guest Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 Hello > > I have been with my boyfriend for a year and five months. > I found out he cheated on me 10 months ago. He told me he kissed her and that > he did it cause he felt bad for her cause she had gotten rape and had problems. > I asked him if he did anything with her. He told me he didn't want to talk about > it cause nothing good was going to come out of it by doing so he said to me. > I told him that I wanted to put behind but he has to be completely be honest... > yesterday 8/29/04 him and I were kissing when I stopped and a question came to > my head so I asked him did he ever touch her breast or anything else. He said > yes so it hurt me and then I said anything else you guys did. It took him a while > but he said all she did was go down on him.... that hurt me more so I asked him > if he slept with her he told me no.... I sort of believe him I don�t know.... > I am hurt cause he didn't tell me this 10 months ago and when we were Intimate > yesterday I taught of that and I could not go down on him... he told me after > everything that he wants us to work and that he doesn�t like her that he choices > to be with me� and that he doesn't deserve me :< cause I am a good, nice, and > honest person.. > Please give me an advice what should I do now? > THANK YOU Link to post Share on other sites
Starnette83 Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 ahhh its hard.... i know u must love ure bf but at the same time u hate what hes done and fear u can never trust him again... i really dont know what u should do cuz im in KInda the same situatuion I love my bf but hes broken promises andlied and we broken up cuz of this, but now he wants to be with me, and tho i wanna be with him and put all the stuff behind, i alwasy feel insecure and its always on my mind that he will do it again..ahhh!!! what r we to do>???? i really dont know..follow our heart and we might get hurt again? let them go and still feel hurt??? Just tell him how it makes u feel and see if hes willing to prove its really you he loves! maybe limit sex for a while til ure comfty again...ahh i dunno... relationships r hard! Link to post Share on other sites
JPNEL06 Posted February 7, 2006 Share Posted February 7, 2006 I AM IN THE SAME SITUATION BUT I TOOK HIM BACK. i AM SO USED TO BEING UP UNDER HIM. IM GOING TO STOP AND GET MY OWN LIFE AND NOT BE AS CLINGY. I KNOW THATLL WORK IT ALWAYS DOES IN OTHER WORDS ACT LIKE U DONT GIVE A f***. BUT STILL KEEP YOUR HEART IN PLACE. Link to post Share on other sites
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