Author promises Posted February 19, 2013 Author Share Posted February 19, 2013 I realize in my past relationships I didn't nag them enough. I see women successful with their men and maybe us nice women aren't nagging enough. I resent negativity in my life, but sometimes there is no other way to get through to people who are so self-absorbed. I agree with that. Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 why is he choosing me? That's what I don't understand.. He chooses to do this because you continue to ALLOW it! Link to post Share on other sites
stevie_23 Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Yes, you sort of allow it for now I guess, but also, he HAD you previously, so who else would he pull this sort of thing on now, if not you? He’d have to find someone else to turn his intentions to instead, and that can take time and also effort… Though if he could bother (and he eventually probably will), he’d pretty much “choose” ANYONE. Link to post Share on other sites
AnotherRound Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Letter #4: "Please speak to me. I have so much anger right now and am in so much pain. I miss my friend. I miss you." Then it goes on to more about (His wifes) diagnosis, it's not good.... (and then more info on the diagnosis).... then more about how much pain he is in and confusion and anger at cancer. Then a bit about his own treatment for alcohol I believe and how that is going but with this new news of cancer and where it has spread he feels like he could lose it. *I'm not making this up. This is honest to goodness what he said and how soap opera he is acting. It goes on to say how he desperately needs a release and he's been writing and doing a few other things but nothing is helping to calm his anger and pain. It was sent on Valentines Day. It is signed with, "Happy Valentines Day"... I would suggest that he see a professional - perhaps check himself into a psychiatric hospital if he is really struggling that much. Chances are if you suggest it, he will admit that he's not as bad off as he is so melodramatically claiming to be. Otherwise, I'm sorry you are dealing with it. It can be so difficult to walk away sometimes, even WITHOUT the theatrics. Ugh. Link to post Share on other sites
stevie_23 Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Maybe he’s been lying to too many people for too long and is now stuck living in his own lies and actually fully believes them… He does seem very selfish, unable to view things from outside his own perspective, and somewhat delusional in a way. Link to post Share on other sites
Catplates Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 As I have said a zillion times regarding love in the affair. He loved Promises in the affair compartment. The love was quite real, but in many cases affair compartment love is only valid in the affair compartment. Pierre, I love you... you have used compartment and not B....e Cat Link to post Share on other sites
Catplates Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 He's a blood sucker. Do not offer him another precious drop !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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