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Is he stringing me along, or should I wait? What's his deal???


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Actually I didn't read the actual post, I was responding to your post with a subject but no body. I was just being a smarta$$. Sorry.

 

But without even reading it if you have to ask, you probably already know the answer. If anyone makes you wait for them, they're probably not worth waiting for. Move on with your life, you won't regret that, but you'll probably end up regretting waiting around.

 

Good luck.

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Haha! You're funny. Yeah, that' alright I didn't mean to leave the body out of the first post. BUt I guess you are right, I just know that a couple of circumstances makes me want to wait. He doesn't even want me to wait, but he wants to have me. I feel sorry for him really for what he is going through ,and I respect the fact that he is trying to do this for me. I really think he is. I don't want to fell like Ia m being too understanding though and letting him bull**** me. lol Thanks for the advice.

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Just a little story about me. Last year my EX told me how everything was so stressful for her at that point and that she couldn't be there for me blah blah. She said I want you to be happy and date other women. I felt bad that her life was so stressful I thought that I was making things worse instead of better for her.

 

I certainly couldn't think about dating other women when the girl I loved was going thru so much in her life.

 

Well come to find out a few months later that she had already started seeing someone else even b4 she dumped me.

 

I hope that's not the case with you, but the truth is, that when people are going thru rough times in their life they want someone there with them besides family and friends. People who are in love grow closer during hardships, not further apart.

 

I know that now after what happened to me.

 

Just be aware that there's a difference between what people say and what they mean. Actions speak louder than words.

 

I hope you don't have to go thru what I did, but at least now you can be prepared for it if you do. I was cuaght totally off gaurd and knocked for a loop.

 

Good luck.

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