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...hoping that he does come out with the truth and tell me what happened...

 

I guess there's a first time for everything.

 

Sorry for the sarcasm, but that won't happen.

 

"Sorry Bill, but someone doesn't just meet someone at a bar, immediately go out with them the next day without their partner, spend the night, exhibit suspicious behavior before, during, and after, then gaslight and blameshift when concerns are aired. In a loving relationship, we discuss these things like adults. I will not remain in a relationship with someone who treats me like that. Good-bye."

 

Then it's up to him to do the heavy lifting to get you back. If he doesn't, good for you. You found out before you invested too much time.

 

PS: I have NO IDEA how any of you gays stay monogomous. There are no women to say "no".

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I guess there's a first time for everything.

 

Sorry for the sarcasm, but that won't happen.

 

"Sorry Bill, but someone doesn't just meet someone at a bar, immediately go out with them the next day without their partner, spend the night, exhibit suspicious behavior before, during, and after, then gaslight and blameshift when concerns are aired. In a loving relationship, we discuss these things like adults. I will not remain in a relationship with someone who treats me like that. Good-bye."

 

Then it's up to him to do the heavy lifting to get you back. If he doesn't, good for you. You found out before you invested too much time.

 

PS: I have NO IDEA how any of you gays stay monogomous. There are no women to say "no".

 

I see what you mean and my mind knows its the logical thing to do....

 

As for staying monogamous - well when you truly love someone and care about them then I for one dont think it makes a difference as to whether you are gay or straight...

 

In the past 16 months I have had countless offers of random NSA hookups and to be honest not once have even been tempted to take up the offer. My partner even knows about this because we have joked about it, and likewise I know he has too and he has never taken them up (well atleast right now thats what I hope)...

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I guess gays have to be like women. I have no idea how THEY stay monogomous. All they have to do is remove the word "no" from their vocabulary to get laid by 5 strange guys a day.

 

I dont get it.

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