MissLY Posted February 20, 2013 Share Posted February 20, 2013 Seriously dude. I've dealt with a ton of sh*t guys in my life. I just recently broke it off with someone who was dating another chick the ENTIRE three months that he was seeing me and lied about it. I swear, the heartache is just not worth it. So right now I am just enjoying LIFE. I'll accept dates from men, but I'll go mainly for the free dinner and to have a good time, never with any expectations. I'm also spending an incredible amount of time with my family and friends, catching up on great movies and books, going on long walks by myself, trying out new cooking recipes etc. I'm also going back to school in a month. The program I'm doing is going to be extremely rigorous and time consuming, but I'm very much looking forward to it. Anyway, it's just amazing how life can truly be when you're not caught up on some lame dude. I am super content with dating no one for a long while. I believe that the right one will pop up at the right time. I'm no longer "searching". Just living life. Thought I'd share 8 Link to post Share on other sites
TouchedByViolet Posted February 20, 2013 Share Posted February 20, 2013 Seriously dude. I've dealt with a ton of sh*t guys in my life. I just recently broke it off with someone who was dating another chick the ENTIRE three months that he was seeing me and lied about it. I swear, the heartache is just not worth it. Wow, what a d-bag. FWIW, if you are finding a trend in the guys you are choosing it is possible your radar for quality men needs adjusting. I wish you luck in the future. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissLY Posted February 20, 2013 Author Share Posted February 20, 2013 Wow, what a d-bag. FWIW, if you are finding a trend in the guys you are choosing it is possible your radar for quality men needs adjusting. I wish you luck in the future. You're right, but it's hard to tell if these men are "quality" or not, especially when they're so consistent and court you so well in the beginning. It's annoying when you can't quite tell what their intentions are. Some of them are such convincing liars. It's awful. Link to post Share on other sites
na49 Posted February 20, 2013 Share Posted February 20, 2013 I'm a male, but I want your attitude on being single. Can I have it? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Locust Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 Seriously dude. I've dealt with a ton of sh*t guys in my life. I just recently broke it off with someone who was dating another chick the ENTIRE three months that he was seeing me and lied about it. I swear, the heartache is just not worth it. So right now I am just enjoying LIFE. I'll accept dates from men, but I'll go mainly for the free dinner and to have a good time, never with any expectations. I'm also spending an incredible amount of time with my family and friends, catching up on great movies and books, going on long walks by myself, trying out new cooking recipes etc. I'm also going back to school in a month. The program I'm doing is going to be extremely rigorous and time consuming, but I'm very much looking forward to it. Anyway, it's just amazing how life can truly be when you're not caught up on some lame dude. I am super content with dating no one for a long while. I believe that the right one will pop up at the right time. I'm no longer "searching". Just living life. Thought I'd share I'm not sure if I'm too young or old for you but one thing we have in common even we don't know each other is wanting someone to love and be faithful to us. I don't think you should just call the quits on this but I can see your reason why you want to a break from this. Not all guys are like the ones you met Link to post Share on other sites
pbjbear Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 Amen to you sister I have decided to be single by choice (I turn down dates entirely...turned down one yesterday actually) these past 6 months and I will for at least another 5 months. Im planning on moving in the fall and maybe after I settle Ill start dating again. If you are in your 20's, most guys arent worth it. I find most guys I have met tend to be selfish and entitled once their true colors come out (most are nice during the beginning stages of dating of course) and tend to not be as mature as me in general. Not dating is less stress and more time to devote to myself rather than to some unappreciative disprespectful guy who doesnt give much back. I have a ton of friends. I have 3 social dates set up for this weekend. I have more fun doing that than being with a guy. I can do what I want, when I want...its nice 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Archgirl Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 I'm so with you on this! How fun is it!? This last 12 months or so is the longest i've been single since I was in my teens and I don't think i've ever felt so happy, centered and stong in myself. Good for you 3 Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 Sing it sister! Relationships are supposed to make you feel happy, not cause drama/headaches. For anyone in relationships, constant arguing is not "part of life", it doesn't have to be, unless you allow it. Ditch those losers and join singledom 3 Link to post Share on other sites
mishy Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 Anyway, it's just amazing how life can truly be when you're not caught up on some lame dude. ) This totally made my day 4 Link to post Share on other sites
mishy Posted February 22, 2013 Share Posted February 22, 2013 ^^^^^ i had been umming and arring all day about going in the city tonight to an event and see a few people I know, and this was the quote that has made me get off my bottom have a shower and get dressed and stop moping about this LOSER!!!! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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