Sheesh Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 What am I doing? I'm flirting too much. Does anybody else feel like they need to be in an I flirt too much annonymous group? Any where I go, I see guys, and I want to flirt with them.....but I want to show respect and I don't say anything, but I still flirt....like, every time I drive down the highway, I'll turn on some good music and I'll get in a good mood, and then I see the pick up trucks and the 18 wheelers going by....I'll try to impress the truck drivers with good driving, as well as the pick up trucks. I attempt to flirt with almost every guy on the highway! every day! and then, I'll be at school, and one of my classes is all guys, minus me and one other girl.....I'll end up wanting to be weaker, and try to get the guy to take care of me....in my thinking at least.....some people could think of this as friendly, others disrespectful, and others uncomfortable. I left my job because I was into too many people at work, and it was for sure that they were seeming uncomfortable around me.....I don't go out with anyone and I haven't had a boyfriend, but I get attatched, mentally, to entirely too many guys. Am I the only person who flirts like this? Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 If you ask me, your constant flirting is based on low self-esteem and a constant need for affirmation that YES you are attractive and desirable. I do have a friend who flirts with and gets crushes on bunches of guys at the same time. Unfortunately she'll sleep with them too, if they ask. Don't go there please. Try focusing on yourself...I know this is hard. Try to push out those thoughts ("is he looking at me? does he have a crush on me? is that 18-wheeler driver waving at me?") and distract yourself. Perhaps seek counseling if you find it interferes with your daily life (sounds like it has since you had to change jobs.) Link to post Share on other sites
caolan Posted September 6, 2004 Share Posted September 6, 2004 It's OK to be flirtatious just don't let it get to your head if you do it will crush you. I have to admit you are doing a good job by not sleeping with them and to me you would have a problem. But hang in there you can overcome this. Link to post Share on other sites
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