Karissa Posted January 22, 1999 Share Posted January 22, 1999 please help me, i've been dating this great guy for a year now, and i'm confused if i want to be with him forever. I feel like i'm missing out on something. I love him soooo much, but i often find myself annoyed with him and not wanting to spend as much time with him. Is this a stage? Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
Swan Posted January 22, 1999 Share Posted January 22, 1999 Do you think he's also getting lose of interest in you?? or only yourself? I don't know if you are living together or how much time you spend together and talk on the phone etc...but trying to not see him for a while if not -have some time and space for yourself "completely" without him- might help you, especially in case you spent too much time together. In my case, when I began to feel kind of bored in our 4 yrs relationship(ie,routine get-together) although we still loved each other, I had tried to spend time with my friends and family as much as possible and done hobbies sports or whatever to focus on myself -a life without him some time- instead of leaving him and tried to become more attractive person to love myself and to be loved, then he eagered to pursue me again and eventually my interest in him started to grow. Before deciding you leave him, it would be better to try devoting your energy to yourself. I am not sure how long it takes but still your loss of interest in him remains afterwards, you can again weigh your relationship then. I hope this helps you out! Link to post Share on other sites
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