crystal.mayer Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 I know that no one can make a decision for me. I just need some opinions so that I know I'm making a wise decision, one that's in my best interest. I've been dating this guy for about a year. He's 19 and I'm 23. I'm thinking seriously about breaking up with him. 1. He can be a real jerk, he makes me feel bad about myself. He says things like "you don't even have a car" I'm a med student and right now I can't afford those things because I spend everything on my classes. Then he calls me a whore and a dirty b**** just because he's had one person which is me and I have a sexual history with my 4 bfs. 2. He needed some money this week about 200 dollars. I really didn't have the extra spending money but I decided that I would sacrifice and give him 250 dollars because he was in a bad place at the time. Then tonight we were having sex and he accidentally came inside of me. He seemed like he didn't even care about it, like he was ok with doing that. So I told him he needed to get me the plan B pill, I didn't have enough because I gave him my money. He promised and he said he didn't have his wallet so he was going to go home and come back and get it for me. He never came back! He just left. Which shows he's not even mature to be having sex if he can't take responsibility. 3. While we were hanging out tonight he said something that just turned me off he said, "well i'm 19 I shouldn't be responsible for anything and if you had a kid because of me I'd go to court and deny everything. I wouldn't have anything to do with it, even if we were together for 8 years. If you wanted an abortion I'd help you" 4. I don't need this extra stress, I'm a med student who's also 23, I'm looking for different things than a 19 year old. He says he's so in love with me but I picture the man who loves me as acting in different ways, not unrealistic ways but just at least being a standup guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Apolodor Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 I am not sure what kind of opinions you expect on this forum, you already seem to know that this guy is not right for you. How does a 23 year girl ends up having a relationship with a freshman? Of course he is immature, what do you expect?! At that age most men just discover the pleasure of sex, love is not part of the equation. You would be much better off finding someone closer to your age and who's had similar life experiences. Link to post Share on other sites
dj572 Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 You know the answer I didn't need to read past reason 1 to say you need to dump him. Do yourself a favor and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Being_patient15 Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 You deserve better. He doesn't need to treat you like that. So I say dump his ass you will feel so much better. Link to post Share on other sites
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