DJREMIX Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 hello, well, here's my situation and i hope some people can help me out!! well, you see ive been separated from my ex-girlfriend for about seven months!! she unfortunately cheated on me and i was hurt big time!! i mean no guy would ever go back with his ex girlfriend knowing that she cheated with him with some other guy!! so my question is why do i still think about her? do u think i should move on even though i still miss her alot since she was first love!!! well, write back okay Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 I guess it all depends on how you treated her back then. If you burned your bridges, then, well, you're f*cked. You have to analyse very carefully why you want her back. She cut you pretty deep, and you may be fixated on her for that reason, but you're perhaps only choosing to remember the good times. In any event, the discussion is moot if she's moved along. Chances are that she has. Link to post Share on other sites
Bender donetat Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 run man, as fast and far as you can, your STILL thinking about her cause you miss the physical contact......if you want to get stabbed again take her back.. Link to post Share on other sites
Scott S Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 so my question is why do i still think about her? do u think i should move on even though i still miss her alot since she was first love!!! I think you answered your own first question. You loved her, in some ways you may still love her. Love is a VERY powerful emotion, & most of us can't simply turn it off like a light switch. My ex & I went our separate ways after she took up with another man. She said she no longer loved me, she wanted out of our marriage, & wanted to be with this OM. I had loved her for several years, & so the feelings didn't go away instantly. On letting go & moving on - You find other things to occupy your mind. Take up a new sport or hobby. Volunteer at a hospital, a nursing home, a homeless shelter, etc. Meet new people. Make new friends. Don't spend too much time & youth wallowing in self-pity. It makes you miserable, & lousy company as well. Life goes on, so let youself live. You haven't mentioned how old you both are. First loves are memorable, of course, but each subsequent one gets better as we mature, & attitudes change. Link to post Share on other sites
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