TxTechGirl04 Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 I have been dating a guy for about a month an a half...about three weeks ago I found out that he has a girlfriend! We have continued to see each other even though he knows that I know that he has a girlfriend. I would like to confront him about the situation without sounding needy or pressuring him to "choose". Any advice on how to effectively communicate with him?? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 Why MAKE him choose if he doesn't WANT to choose? This fella is playing both women, that's sad and pathetic. I personally don't think he deserves your time, nor your energy. If he wanted only you, chances are, he'd probably be with only you. Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. If you do choose to talk to him about this, well, good luck. I have no good advice there, you're a more patient woman than I. Link to post Share on other sites
Kasey70 Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 I agree with tiki, why would you even want to be with someone that has another g/f? You shouldn't have to play second fiddle. I would dump him and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
joodee Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 Yes, dump him. He wasn't upfront with you, he's indeed playing both of you, and kept her a secret from you. Dump him, and maybe that will wake him up, or not. If he "wakes up" after you dump him, you will know because he will try to reach out to you and cut off the other girl. You will find out then if he ever cared for you. If he doesn't contact you or pursue you after you dump him, or tries to justify having both of you as his girlfriends at the same time, forget about him and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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