jwefff Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 Hi everyone I know I'm not registered and what not but I just found this place and want to just ask one thing. Well you see I'm not really that attractive (well I think I'm not) but my g/f does well I've only had sex with one girl and thats my g/f and I love her to death and well you see I've been thinking what would it be like to have sex with another girl I've only had one opinion of me in bed but that was my g/f and I don't know if she would be telling the truth or just saying ya your good to make me feel good. Well I told her about it and she said she understood and said I should try to find a girl that way I could find out what it would be like well the truth is that I do but I don't cause I feel like I would be cheating on her even though she said it was ok I tryed my way to see if she was lying but no buge so I guess she really does but I don't know. I want to see what its like to have sex with another girl but I also don't cause I don't want to ruin my relationship by the way I'm 17 turning 18 and I've been with my girl for almost a year and I don't want to ruin it but I'm so young and I haven't had many serious relationships with any girls I just don't know what to do she says I should but I don't cause then I'd feel like I'd ruin the relationship PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 When you are in a relationship, you trust your partner to be honest and open with you. If your girlfriend says she is satisfied with your performance in bed, and she finds you attractive, then you should not be doubting her. Perhaps you have a few insecurities, as this may be new territory for you, and you are inexperienced, but don't begin to question what she tells you unless you have a very good reason to. I wouldn't go and have sex with another girl. You are either with your girlfriend or you are not, and I think it was wrong of her to even seriously suggest such a thing. If you're concerned about how you are in the bedroom, ask her to show you what she likes. Every person is different, and what she loves may not do one tiny thing for the next girlfriend you find. You probably won't be with this girl forever, so in time you will get that experience that you want. Definitely don't have relations with anyone else, even if your girlfriend is saying it is alright to do so. Link to post Share on other sites
XxXTiffanyXxX Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 Originally posted by jwefff Hi everyone I know I'm not registered and what not but I just found this place and want to just ask one thing. Well you see I'm not really that attractive (well I think I'm not) but my g/f does well I've only had sex with one girl and thats my g/f and I love her to death and well you see I've been thinking what would it be like to have sex with another girl I've only had one opinion of me in bed but that was my g/f and I don't know if she would be telling the truth or just saying ya your good to make me feel good. Well I told her about it and she said she understood and said I should try to find a girl that way I could find out what it would be like well the truth is that I do but I don't cause I feel like I would be cheating on her even though she said it was ok I tryed my way to see if she was lying but no buge so I guess she really does but I don't know. I want to see what its like to have sex with another girl but I also don't cause I don't want to ruin my relationship by the way I'm 17 turning 18 and I've been with my girl for almost a year and I don't want to ruin it but I'm so young and I haven't had many serious relationships with any girls I just don't know what to do she says I should but I don't cause then I'd feel like I'd ruin the relationship PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME Listen u don't need to but i cheated on my boyfriend n i told him that i wanted him 2 do it 2 me so i would know how it felt well wat i really wanted was 4 him 2 not do it sumtimes girls say those things 2 get attention OK but listen i know how u feel My bf is the only person i have ever slept wit n i don't unda stand y u want to sleep wit otha people 4 if u really loved her u wouldn't think of that!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
soccorsilly Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 Cheating is cheating--don't forget the emotional and physical consequences as well! At 17, I am going to venture that your current GF is probably NOT going to be a lifetime thing. When you two break up there will be someone else and you can hone your skills. Be honest with what you have--tell her what you like and what feels good to you and believe her when she tells you that you are good and good looking....if she did not feel so strongly, woldn't SHE be looking for another man? Link to post Share on other sites
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