Ladyjane14 Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 Tracy's right on when when she says to give yourself some credit for thinking it all through. It can't be easy to bare it all in an open forum, and then to take the heat you have taken. You're a strong person. Reservoirdog1 has a good point in that taking a break with the friendhip could go a long way in making you feel less vulnerable to a possible affair. (There are times when marriages just will not work out, but its' so important to really make sure that it's over. I've read quite a few of TMCM's posts today, and his advice in this area is sound.) You've been putting up with a certain amount of neglect in the marriage. Your H needs to make a better effort at making you a priority in his life. You can continue to build resentment over it, or you can tackle it as the primary issue in the marriage. It's important to remember though, that it needs to be reciprocal. Make him a priority in your life as well. Good luck, honey! You deserve it! Link to post Share on other sites
amer Posted September 10, 2004 Share Posted September 10, 2004 When your husband told you to go bang someone if that's what you gotta do. He was so hoping that you'd tell him you're out of your mind that I'd want to do that! You lost out, by not answering that way. Your marriage has taken a huge hit. See, your husband now knows you'd rather screw another man. He will not soon forget that whether or not you actuall;y do so. It is up to you to repair what you have already done without removing your knickers. That alone will take far longer than this day of escape idiocy you fantasize about. Imagine how much worse it will be for you if youi actually do go through with it. Link to post Share on other sites
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