MsBlink Posted September 3, 2004 Share Posted September 3, 2004 So not too long ago I left a message talking about the hard time I was having with my LDR...sometimes it's up, sometimes it's down. Right now I'm down, but that's not what this rant is about. It's about how every time me and my guy plan to see each other, something stupid comes in the way of it happening. Right now, I should be watching a movie with my guy, laughing and not feeling so damn empty. Instead, I'm still in Bowling Green, OH alone and bored. I can't even get a sure thing going with my sorority sisters to get the hell out and try to clear my head. And I hate feeling like this. It's bull. I refuse to sit here and mope and/or climb in bed and try to sleep the day away. Why can't our plans follow through?!? Why do they ALWAYS end up like this? If someone knows something I don't, let me know! Geeze...I freakin' miss him, does it have to be intensified?!? ~MsBlink Link to post Share on other sites
disconcertainly Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 Why does your plans fall through? Does he always make excuses? Link to post Share on other sites
beautiful Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 msblink..................i think it is pretty sad that you allow a guy to make you feel this blah. Don't you have your own life? Why are you allowing to let a guy define your own happiness? I am sorry to say this but you are not ready to be in a healthy relationship with any guy as long as you define your life by being with someone. Live a sincerely happy and healthy life. Have friends and family and be sincerely busy......................as they say.......get a life and than a man. Men don't like women like that! Don't give up who you are as a person so fast to be with a guy. Do some inner searching and find out what makes you happy. So that you can begin to have each day full of joy:-). Link to post Share on other sites
JessicaAlmond Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 I completely agree. Get your life then a man. If all your doing is sleeping in when your man is not around GET OUT. Go work out..go out with friends..visit family.. LDR's are hard I did one for a while till I realized I ws just fooling myself..Delaying a long goodbye is what I called it. But you need to have your own life aside from him. What did you do before you met him? Is he putting in an effort to make you feel less lonely though? Does he do little things like e-mail and or send you things? I know its a rollercoaster ride but if you love him you have to stick it through and wait for that day you guys can be together again. It's what I used to do.. But it is fustrating thinking your going to see eachother and then having your plans fall apart..What little things are keeping your plans from following through? Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsBlink Posted September 23, 2004 Author Share Posted September 23, 2004 Wow, it shocks me that so many of you believe I don't have a life of my own! LOL! Do that many people on LoveShack SUCK THAT BAD... First off, my guy doesn't "define" my happiness, because with or without him, I'm blessed and full of joy. It is DIFFERENT when your significant other is not with you and you'd like them to be. Long distance relationships are not easy, period. Second, to assume I'm shallow and have no life of my own all because I made one post during a time where I would have really loved to have my boyfriend with me is kind of screwed up. I'm pretty damn busy doing things I enjoy and it offended me that some of you made this assumption of me. If an LDR didn't work for you, I'm sorry to hear that, but mine works for me. There is nothing wrong with missing someone sometimes, even if they are close in proximity. So I won't rant on LoveShack anymore if that's the feedback I get. I should've thought about that initially, but then again, I thought I would find someone who could possibly relate. ~MsBlink Link to post Share on other sites
neener Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 MsBlink I can totally understand where your coming from. I have had more LDRs then any other type of relationship, what can I say I have this knack for meeting the one guy from out of town no matter where I go. Anyway these types of relationships work for me because I do have a life. I recently reignited an old flame with someone I was seeing a couple of years ago and I do have to admit there are times when I get down and I miss him, especially when plans fall through but the times we're together more then make up for the few times I get down. I'm supposed to meet him next weekend and now he may have to work. It's not that I'll sit around and feel sorry for myself if I don't end up seeing him, it's just that much more of a dissapointment after all the anticipation and waiting and I think thats the part that no else who replied to your post seems to understand. Don't give up there are people here who do understand where your coming from. Link to post Share on other sites
JessicaAlmond Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 not feeling so damn empty. Instead, I'm still in Bowling Green, OH alone and bored. I can't even get a sure thing going with my sorority sisters to get the hell out and try to clear my head. And I hate feeling like this. It's bull. I refuse to sit here and mope and/or climb in bed and try to sleep the day away. That sounded to me like all you did was stay home and mope around and had nothing better to do. I didnt mean you didnt have a life and I'm sorry if I sounded that way what I meant was don't waste your life and days away moping around your house missing him and not doing anything. I know you miss him and you were having a moment...it's like a rollercoaster ride some days your good some days you miss him so much you feel your going insane... Like I said, whenever our missinghim a lot just smile and picture the "happy ending" when there won't be anymore distance between you guys and have fun.. Link to post Share on other sites
pixie2004 Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Posting on Love Shack means that you ask for personal views on your life and everyone is entitled to their own opinions... Link to post Share on other sites
Proto Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 Originally posted by pixie2004 Posting on Love Shack means that you ask for personal views on your life and everyone is entitled to their own opinions... True, but doesn't that mean that you have an opportunity to share your opinions to HELP someone rather than attack and antagonize them? LOL. Women are so catty Link to post Share on other sites
re3rocks Posted September 26, 2004 Share Posted September 26, 2004 indivuduality. you are u and u have ur personality and ****. keep urself ocupied. read a book, go out for a drive... ah who am i kidding im lonely too!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author MsBlink Posted September 27, 2004 Author Share Posted September 27, 2004 *shrugs* Not that anyone cares as much as me, but my guy did come to BG to see me this weekend. It was a nice "vacation", but it's time to get back into the roll of things. I did enjoy myself though...I just don't have time right now to dwell on it! I got things to do! I know I have a good memory of him being here with me for a few days versus nothing at all. So yeah, I'm in a decent mood. ~MsBlink Link to post Share on other sites
pixie2004 Posted September 27, 2004 Share Posted September 27, 2004 I agree Women are catty!!! me ? never....!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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