whichwayisup Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 Talking and doing are two different things. You don't know if he's even had a conversation with his spouse about it. Honestly, live your life and go on, don't hold up too much hope otherwise you're going to be very disappointed. Link to post Share on other sites
wisernow Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 Added twist. He's actually talking separation/divorce. This is new. He has NEVER indicated any hint of leaving before. I would like to think "tactic" to keep me on the hook, but there really is a different feel to his new emails...I don't know. I'm still holding out. Leave me alone until you are 100% done.... Can't help but get a little hopeful. Curious how you found out about this if you've asked him to leave you alone. You do realize that more than a few mm string the OW on for years claiming he will be separating or divorcing soon, right? How is your divorce going? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wellington Posted March 20, 2013 Author Share Posted March 20, 2013 Yes, I realize I could get "strung along" for years although I would never let that happen. He emailed me and talked with me about everything going on. I was shocked. He is usually tight lipped. Still not going anywhere near him until he is actually "done". I was supportive, and wished him well with it all. That is it. My husband has moved out. We are in the process. The house feels so much calmer and happier already. I should have taken these steps years ago. Link to post Share on other sites
loredo21 Posted March 20, 2013 Share Posted March 20, 2013 well you never know what will happen. there are some success stories. you could be one. i know you know it will be a long a painful process. But what ever makes you happy in the end you should go for it. with patience. GL! Link to post Share on other sites
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