joseyposie Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 this guy i have been seeing for 3 weeks now we have started to have sex. i am 5ft2 in and 220lbs and he knows that i am a chubby girl. he has wanted me to have sex with him and i agreed to. well he has to drink at least 4 beers before we do it and he preforms alot of foreplay on me. when we are ready he is hard when we kiss and when we slips his penis inside me he is limp. is it me or is there a problem? he says he is shy? this has happened to me twice now and i feel he might not be sexual attracted to me and just having sex with me since there is no body around. also his mom is vistiting from china and i haven't seen him for two weeks now and he says we will go out when his mom leaves in three mths. i am crazy for him and want to date him more but i don't know what to do? any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 You're saying he has to drink at least 4 beers before he can have sex with you? Doesn't sounds like he's the kind of guy I would want to be with. You deserve someone who is attracted to you even when they are sober. Link to post Share on other sites
einahpets Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 don't wait 3 mos. for this guy. it seems he is leading you on and only using you when it is good for him. you can do much better. Link to post Share on other sites
Kizzyfur Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 He has to be drunk in order to have sex with you?? Doesn't sound quite right to me. Also the fact he doesn't want to have anything to do with you until his mother is gone is a major RED FLAG. If he cared anything about you the fact his mother was here to visit wouldn't stop him from seeing you. Especially since she's going to be visiting for so long. Does he ever take you out anywhere?? Or is your relationship with him strictly behind closed doors?? The alcohol may be causing him to go limp. But it sounds to me like he's just with you for whatever sex he can get from you. I suggest you DO NOT wait around for him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joseyposie Posted September 4, 2004 Author Share Posted September 4, 2004 Originally posted by Kizzyfur He has to be drunk in order to have sex with you?? Doesn't sound quite right to me. Also the fact he doesn't want to have anything to do with you until his mother is gone is a major RED FLAG. If he cared anything about you the fact his mother was here to visit wouldn't stop him from seeing you. Especially since she's going to be visiting for so long. Does he ever take you out anywhere?? Or is your relationship with him strictly behind closed doors?? The alcohol may be causing him to go limp. But it sounds to me like he's just with you for whatever sex he can get from you. I suggest you DO NOT wait around for him. yes we go out and have dinner and then back to his place for tv and sex. i see him only once a week but since his mom is in this past two weeks he is just emailing me once a week. Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 well he has to drink at least 4 beers before we do it This seems more than a little odd, even if you were not human, which I'm certain you are since you've been able to type the post. You're not, um................... physically deformed are you? Otherwise: This guy's got "issues." Link to post Share on other sites
Author joseyposie Posted September 4, 2004 Author Share Posted September 4, 2004 Originally posted by Samson This seems more than a little odd, even if you were not human, which I'm certain you are since you've been able to type the post. You're not, um................... physically deformed are you? Otherwise: This guy's got "issues." no just chubby girl. i am 5ft2 in and 220lbs. Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 Well, chubby can be cute, as long as you're not working in a side show at a traveling carnival. Perhaps the guy is gay? Link to post Share on other sites
Author joseyposie Posted September 4, 2004 Author Share Posted September 4, 2004 Originally posted by Samson Well, chubby can be cute, as long as you're not working in a side show at a traveling carnival. Perhaps the guy is gay? i think his penis is alittle to short at 5in. Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 Who knows? With only half a six pack in him, he might reach 5 1/2" !!! Either way, this isn't a "big" excuse for limpness. The important sex organ is the mind. Sounds like he might have a small imagination. Link to post Share on other sites
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