John1 Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 Hello Just wondering if anyone here has ever had an ex who changed their mind and gave the person a 2nd chance... like for instance my ex who i was with for 4 years, we split up 15 months ago.. we spoke of marriage etc.. had plans for future, were due to move in together but i kissed another girl and confessed and she was devastated but i took breakup badly and begged etc.. for months i couldnt let go and in the 15 months apart she still wont give me a 2nd chance... she wont talk to me. .she changed her number... I have not spoken to her in about 3 months.. I realise I was wrong and stupid in keep asking for a 2nd chance etc but that has now stopped.. I wont be contacting her anymore , I hope if possible that she realises that we had 4 great years together and this was a one off mistake by me.. I truly miss her.. we used to speak 4-5 times every day.. in 15 months apart we have spoken maybe 10-12 times and it was usally me who iniated the contact in this time , cos if i didnt i dont think she would have.. I just think that she was worth fighting for and hoped that 1 drunken mistake wouldnt wipe away our 4 years together... Im hoping that with this space or No Contact she might miss me or think that she was a bit too harsh with me.. Just wondering has anyones ex done a complete u turn going from absolutely hating the person and saying that they want nothing to do with them and will never ever give them a 2nd chance etc etc to actually calling that person and offering a 2nd chance with the relationship.and living happily ever after... Thanks for your input John Link to post Share on other sites
ECVegas Posted September 6, 2004 Share Posted September 6, 2004 Anything can happen John.....anything. But I don't think I would sit around and count the hours for it to happen. Especially after 15 months. Life is too precious to spend it that way, and there is a very good chance she has probably moved on with someone else. Sounds like you made a mistake and learned from it. Some would debate the seriousness of your error, but that is only in the eyes of the betrayed. Everything in life happens for a reason. You sitting around wondering if she will ever return to you will rob you of the precious days that you could spend mending your broken heart so that you can one day love again. You told her everything you had to say. Apologized a trillion times. It's a wise move to leave her alone. If anything, that time away from her might allow her to get over your "mistake" and maybe reconsider her feelings. But for your sake, I would not count on her coming back. Sometimes, as unfair as it might seem...you have to let go. I'm not saying you may never hear from her again. But you'd be better off spending your time living life and healing your heart so that one day you won't care whether you hear from her again or not. Link to post Share on other sites
j_nelson Posted September 6, 2004 Share Posted September 6, 2004 YES, JUST GOT THE CALL LAST NIGHT.... My ex gf called....the story is posted on here somewhere...mabye 4 or 5 pages down....called last night after a whole summer of not talking or wanting to be together saying she missed me so much, it is so good to talk to me again, she wants to come visit me at school (2000 km away) and she wants to do this "right" this time.....sounds like the girl that I loved for so long, not at all the girl she was this summer... Link to post Share on other sites
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