lovefool15 Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 Hey, I would really love to hear some opinions on my problem. I went out with a guy for 5 months and i broke up with him cause I lost the feelings I once had for him. I have commitment issues but thats a whole other story. So we broke up, he was in love with me and I loved him but wasn't 'in love' with him. That was 7 months ago and since then we have met up numerous times and pashed a bit. He said he wanted to get back together on many occasions and I said I only wanted a casual relationship cause I was scared that I was going to lose interest and hurt him again. He is always away for work and sport and says that his life is really busy atm but wants us to be together again. Just when I think things have cooled off for us he messages me every now and then and we meet up again. When I'm with him I realise that I want to be his g/f, I think I may even love him. He is always away, as I said, and so time for us to go out is limited. He messaged me the other night saying he was thinking of me and that he wants to catch up when he gets back. That was a week and a half ago, so I msged him just about general stuff, nothing too clingy but he hasn't replied. Its now been 2 days, which is unusual for him. Every day I think about him and how I will never find a guy like him again, he just seems so wonderful. However I am scared that as soon as we get back together I will change my mind, as i have done b4. I have gone out with other guys recently but none that I share the same spark with as I do with this guy. We are both teenagers, and i know that he hasn't seen or been interested in any other girls since we broke up. Do you think I have missed my chance with him or do you think he is playing games/ hard to get because I broke his heart? If you have anything to say I would love to hear it, thanks Link to post Share on other sites
sock83 Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 hey, I'd stop beating around the bush if you love the guy well what are you waiting for. When you say you are scared of going back just incase you start to feel the same way again, i think that you are creating these fears and ideas in your head and if you think about them too much they will become reality. Start fresh you obvisoly love the guy go with your heart and see what happens at least if it doesnt work this time youll know for sure! good luck sock83 Link to post Share on other sites
backspn Posted September 4, 2004 Share Posted September 4, 2004 Ditto. Just go for it. If you love him then try it. You are both young enough for you to make mistakes. If you two dont work out then the next relationship you are in will be better because of him. Who knows, you guys may hook up later if things dont work out this time. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovefool15 Posted September 8, 2004 Author Share Posted September 8, 2004 Thanks heaps for your replies. Link to post Share on other sites
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