helena_bloom Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 hi me and my virgo are together 2years. in general,he's the best boyfriend i can imagine,i'm crazy about him and we are very connected. but sometimes he likes to disappear and acts cold. i know he loves me but why he has these phases..? and, do virgo men prefer to be called or they prefer to iniciate contact? Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 1) everyone likes some "me time". 2) the month of the year you are born in doesn't affect anything to do with dating. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 I happen to look up the Virgo zodiac sign (since I was born in September) and, well, it does explain pretty accurately how I do look upon the world. In essence, I agree with it for the most part. OP, this may come in handy. Give you some idea as to what you may need to do concerning your boyfriend. Virgo Sign - Virgo Zodiac Sign Characteristics, Personality - Zodiac-Signs-Astrology.com Perhaps these zodiac signs is more useful than I realize. I need to read further into them. As for your question concerning whether Virgo men (like me) prefer to call or be contacted, at your stage, they would most likely prefer to be called. In time, if he wants you, he will eventually open up and initiate himself but that will take time. Link to post Share on other sites
rocketman122 Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 looking at the personality traits listed for Virgo's, I have most of those listed. born on the 11th. I use my mind a lot. I analyze and analyze and think nonstop. I play the scene over and over in my mind. when things go wrong, I get quiet, go to my dark corner and think. I am a worrier. I am very perceptive. I see everything. and being a pro photog made this very sharp. Im extremely accurate. maybe boring sometimes, because I am repetitive in my nature which also makes me very loyal and dependable. I am spontaneous, but I need to plan mostly. I need an itinerary. I pay attention to the smallest details. I can see ahead and the future. I dont believe in the "lets enjoy the now" I dont know how to round the edges off when I speak. Im harsh but I say it like I see it. I am logical and always fair. I do very much believe in the mystical world. I also chose women based on their zodiac sign when I did OLD. I remember every person and their sign that ive met. it tells me a lot about a person and their sign shows through almost always. btw, when I was on OLD, I did a personal test by writing down every sign of every woman's profile I clicked on over 9 days. it was no contest whatsoever that the dominated signs were fire and air signs. very clear cut. I only dated earth and some water signs. the rest, I would not even consider. and thats another thing im very good at. Im very good at judging your character and who you are, very quickly. but getting back to your comment. Virgo's can get cold. its not cold because of you but he needs his time to think. he will come back to you. if there is a problem, he might not say what it is right away and will just analyze. when I go to my GF, (far from me) sleep there and come home in the morning, im sad and I get quiet and "cold" (I guess thats what you call it) but I bounce back after a day. if he's cold and quiet, dont call, send him a simple text (I love you, or stop thinking about me) and let him come to you. dont be a nag. it will frustrate him more. when he's ready he will come. Link to post Share on other sites
its a lifestyle Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 I happen to look up the Virgo zodiac sign (since I was born in September) and, well, it does explain pretty accurately how I do look upon the world. I did the same a few months back, I'm an open minded skeptic on everything which can't by experienced first hand... I looked up my star sign and the traits of Aquarius, and I could relate to it so much it unnerved me.. People try to brush it of as being written so vaguely that the odds of being able to relate are pretty high... But I also looked into the other star signs, and couldn't really relate to much of what they are saying at all, I don't live by these things, but I guess I give it a thought every once in a while. Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 This is strictly my opinion but I would think more men and women need to look into zodiac signs when they are dating one another. It would give a deeper understanding as to what that particular person may or may not do and would help figure out what is your best move to continue a relationship, if you so choose to stay in one. Link to post Share on other sites
blindotter Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 I'm a Libra, Libra rising, with a Pisces moon. I can't get along with virgo men to save my life. Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 People try to brush it of as being written so vaguely that the odds of being able to relate are pretty high... But I also looked into the other star signs, and couldn't really relate to much of what they are saying at all, I looked at that link for Virgo and thought it described me very well. Maybe there's something in it! Oh, wait, I'm not a Virgo. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author helena_bloom Posted March 2, 2013 Author Share Posted March 2, 2013 and btw he usually contacts me first, and i feel weird when we don't hear each other for 1 day.should i be worried about that? i noticed that when i make first contact he's not always in the mood for big conversation or he is in a hurry,so.. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 As someone who studies Astrology - Virgo men can tend to need their alone time or seem distant (I should know, I am a Virgo). However, this isn't universal, and most of the time it's dictated by other factors in their overall chart and planets/placements. If I were you, I wouldn't be too worried unless he does something drastically out of the norm - if he breaks routine, something may be up. Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 It's a bit odd to me that you have to ask when you've been together two years. The answers are in your experience, not in the charts. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 CafeAstrology.com has free compatibility charts. They are more accurate than sun signs. Lots of information that website if you want to learn more about astrology in general. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Estate Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 hi me and my virgo are together 2years. in general,he's the best boyfriend i can imagine,i'm crazy about him and we are very connected. but sometimes he likes to disappear and acts cold. i know he loves me but why he has these phases..? and, do virgo men prefer to be called or they prefer to iniciate contact? Virgo men are a dark and mysterious creature, unlike their Scorpio counterparts who often enjoy the occasional bowl of cheerios in the bathroom, virgo's often go through a monthly cycle of self-loathing and rebounding to panther like abilities. Often these manifest themselves in ways unimaginable to anyone mortal... Showering in Ragu sauce, Smoking crumbled up cheetos and drinking milk straight from the carton. For one to understand why this happens, one must understand the planetary alignment in all phases.... except in August... when a momentary solar eclipse turns all virgos into lava. Seriously? Star signs define what we do? Horse-S***. Link to post Share on other sites
iKING Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 Just be glad you're not dealing with a Gemini. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Estate Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 looking at the personality traits listed for Virgo's, I have most of those listed. born on the 11th. I use my mind a lot. I analyze and analyze and think nonstop. I play the scene over and over in my mind. when things go wrong, I get quiet, go to my dark corner and think. I am a worrier. I am very perceptive. I see everything. and being a pro photog made this very sharp. Im extremely accurate. maybe boring sometimes, because I am repetitive in my nature which also makes me very loyal and dependable. I am spontaneous, but I need to plan mostly. I need an itinerary. I pay attention to the smallest details. I can see ahead and the future. I dont believe in the "lets enjoy the now" I dont know how to round the edges off when I speak. Im harsh but I say it like I see it. I am logical and always fair. I do very much believe in the mystical world. I also chose women based on their zodiac sign when I did OLD. I remember every person and their sign that ive met. it tells me a lot about a person and their sign shows through almost always. btw, when I was on OLD, I did a personal test by writing down every sign of every woman's profile I clicked on over 9 days. it was no contest whatsoever that the dominated signs were fire and air signs. very clear cut. I only dated earth and some water signs. the rest, I would not even consider. and thats another thing im very good at. Im very good at judging your character and who you are, very quickly. but getting back to your comment. Virgo's can get cold. its not cold because of you but he needs his time to think. he will come back to you. if there is a problem, he might not say what it is right away and will just analyze. when I go to my GF, (far from me) sleep there and come home in the morning, im sad and I get quiet and "cold" (I guess thats what you call it) but I bounce back after a day. if he's cold and quiet, dont call, send him a simple text (I love you, or stop thinking about me) and let him come to you. dont be a nag. it will frustrate him more. when he's ready he will come. What a load of bollocks.... Anyone can write a horrorscope... Just pick out common human traits, emotions, feelings and thoughts and wrap it up with a nice twist and it describes pretty much anyone. I mean... ever read your horroscope and be like "Oh, thats so me!!!", now go read the other signs... they ALL describe you. Read the thing above! It could apply to anyone, born at any time. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 I was involved with a Virgo man for 3 years some time ago. He would disappear, act cold or moody. No problem for me because I'm a person who likes to stay busy and can find 100 things to do in one day. I'm a Libra and I like to have fun. I would just leave him be and spend time out with my friends until he called. In the end he hated that I didn't chase after him or demand more of his time. OP leave him alone and don't sit around waiting for him or you will drive yourself crazy. Get out and have fun. What is your zodiac sign? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony427 Posted March 3, 2013 Share Posted March 3, 2013 ugh... astrology is nonsense. Sometimes we men are moody and have bad days and just want to be left alone "virgo" or not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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