Peagreeneyez Posted March 2, 2013 Share Posted March 2, 2013 a neutral mind and I need that. I just found out my BF contacted his 1st crush ever and it was important enough to find out if he missed out in anything. He wanted "Closure". He gave out his #1st to her and try to hang out. But she didn't feel the same way. I asked what if she did,his reply was: "than just be friends".....be friends with a person who had(have) feelings with?!?! To me made no sense to be. If you fall in love with your current GF why do you need closure? Isn't it closure when you found your true love? Isn't enough to know you found your "dream girl"? Why go looking for your 1st crush and try to hang out to see if you missed out?! When you have your love for your GF? I kinda feel I became a backup Girlfriend, 2nd. Just for now. ='( sorry its a lot. Craziness! But I can't talk to my sisters they would judge harshly and it neutral here and I hope you don't mind me being forward like this. I am just feeling reeeeally sad Link to post Share on other sites
Darren Steez Posted March 3, 2013 Share Posted March 3, 2013 Closure is by far the worst cliched argument for contacting an ex. Once that word is uttered you absolutely start running for the hills. You called BS on BS. What does he want closure from? He still have feelings towards her and needs validation of some sort? He wants to be friends with someone he wants closure from...how does that work? She's clearly moved on, not interested in "hanging out"..oh that's another one..your boyfriend wants to hang out with his ex. He's with you but his heart is still with her. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
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